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BeyondBlue Hi! Check out this post if you're not sure how to start
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Hi there and welcome to the Anxiety section of the Forums First of all, thank you so much for joining us here. We think it’s amazing that you’ve taken this step to getting support and learning from this Community. You are very welcome here and we are... View more

Hi there and welcome to the Anxiety section of the Forums First of all, thank you so much for joining us here. We think it’s amazing that you’ve taken this step to getting support and learning from this Community. You are very welcome here and we are really interested in what you might want to add to these conversations. We get it, having anxiety makes it hard to share in a public place. Remeber, this is anonymous and the Beyond Blue team are here to help if you need it This section is for people who are experiencing anixiety in some form in their lives. This might be in social settings, at work, or just in the day to day. You don’t need a diagnosis to post here. If it feels like the right spot for you post, go right ahead! We know that feeling anxious can make it hard to reach out so we want you to know that getting this far is amazing and a great start. A few tips for getting the most out of this section: Get involved when you can! Posting and replying is the heartbeat of this community and you DO have something worthile to share (when you’re ready ) Every experience is different. There is no competition here. We know how challenging anxiety can be and how it comes in all shapes and sizes. What you are experiencing will be respected and supported here. Trust yourself! You are the expert in your experience. This community works because people like you share what has worked for you. Thank you for getting involved and taking a look. We can’t wait to hear from you! Beyond Blue

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blues23 Returned to work
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I’ve been on work cover for around 10/11 months due to work place injury, bullying, assault and numerous other things happend I’ve been sent to a new location ( temporarily) while I adjust to returning to work , today was first day back It was hard I... View more

I’ve been on work cover for around 10/11 months due to work place injury, bullying, assault and numerous other things happend I’ve been sent to a new location ( temporarily) while I adjust to returning to work , today was first day back It was hard I was lumped in a role I’ve never done ( receptionist) Recived no training just answer phones take notes which is way stressing when I don’t know clients procedures or even the telephone systems or who to ask for help no one was available despite me asking numerous times for help . I can’t say how I felt after leaving work all of 3 hours work left me sweating profusely and literally panicked state of mind then to top it off I got a snarky email from my nasty return to work co ordinator due to apparently me missing something in a timesheet I submitted and that was my fault given I’ve never had to do timesheets and again no one was around to assist me to complete these tasks . My dad says I should quit and after today I feel I should I I’mvery overwhelmed by today’s awful work day and told my new boss that too . I dread going into work tomorrow , how do others deal with returning to work after long absence and mental health problems I have anxiety and depression Re what happened at my original work site yes I am requesting a new return to work co ordinator

Janie223 Social Anxiety really makes relationships hard
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Hi, I’ve been diagnosed with social anxiety and depression in the last couple of years but have struggled ever since I can remember. I have never really managed to hold on to friendships and at the moment, can’t actually even name someone who is my f... View more

Hi, I’ve been diagnosed with social anxiety and depression in the last couple of years but have struggled ever since I can remember. I have never really managed to hold on to friendships and at the moment, can’t actually even name someone who is my friend. I’m really lonely and ashamed about how alone I am. I’m realising how scared I am to reach out to people because I assume they will reject me. I’ve just stopped trying. But this just continues the cycle of loneliness. I don’t know how to break out of it. This has been an issue I’ve dealt with my entire life and I don’t see it getting better. I’m now in my mid thirties. I’m so tired of constantly worrying about what people think about me. I’m exhausted. I’m sorry there isn’t much positivity here - it isn’t going well.

Elephant86 A beautiful a powerful decision of powerful positivity
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I went to the doctor to have my bloods done for my Type 2 Diabetes? I found out I put on weight due to my condition and I realize you can't contorl your condition but you can control the steps you take to control it. I have totally changed my diet to... View more

I went to the doctor to have my bloods done for my Type 2 Diabetes? I found out I put on weight due to my condition and I realize you can't contorl your condition but you can control the steps you take to control it. I have totally changed my diet to having less meat and more salads and fish not giving red meat all together and having less of it. Your condition doesn't have to be a death sentence you have the power with yourself and the changes you choose to make that determines your destiny in life it is your chioce which derection you choose? I always focus on what I can control not what I can'tfor example my favourite artists are mariah carey and I love to dance to her beautiful music in the morning it gets me in a positive frame of mind. I love to dance and be positive and forward thinking. What can I do to make me positive and happy ? When I sat in front of the doctor and we all have to at some point I got bad news about my weight but decided to look at the positive I am alive I have my family that loves and cares for me and most importantly I have my cat and my dog to cuddle me every day. We are all surrounded by love? We are surrounde by angels wheather it be our brothers and sisters our mums and dad our doctors or our nurses they are everywhere. You can always find guidance and care from everyone in your community because everybody in your community is here to help and protect you from the darkness. You must light a candle and have hope and realise you will come out of the darkness and into the light When I spoke to my doctor about my condition I could have been scared but I decided to have hope that will get through this time of my life that is a challenge but I will rise like a pheniox out of the ashes. I never give up that is my true superpower I have resilance and the ability to have the strength to walk against my true challengers I face I beleive that you can do the exact same. It is in you to fight to walk to stand. I am powerful beyond measure and I will succeed You will have times of fear in your life and beleive I have had those times to but my resilance is my super power my determination to wanting to acheive something in my life. I know to work through your condition is a great challenge and I understand the how scary it is it is like you have a boogy monster in the closet and he doesn't go away. You can tell to leave me alone and have some hope in your heart and soul. The most important thing is to keep laughing and dancing and smileing.

Sal2645 Anxiety
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This is my first time on a platform like this but I thought that I need to see if it can help. I think I’ve struggled with anxiety my whole life but have never known how to deal with it. I have a deep rooted fear of rejection and that I’m boring and ... View more

This is my first time on a platform like this but I thought that I need to see if it can help. I think I’ve struggled with anxiety my whole life but have never known how to deal with it. I have a deep rooted fear of rejection and that I’m boring and in turn no one likes me. This has really hindered my friendships as my insecurities have pushed them away and I really struggle to hold conversations with even the closest people to me.I’ve done well at pretending there is no problem recently but I’ve just graduated high school which means I’m no longer forced to leave the house and talk to others so loneliness is consuming at the moment. It not that I don’t have friends it’s just that I struggle to answer when they call and I feel really guilty for some reason after every conversation even if it was normal. My fear that they don’t like me is just so consuming. I want to experience like normal people my age but I’m just unable. I don’t want to make this anyone else’s problem so I need to figure it out but I’m so lost cause I’ve been like this my whole life I’m just getting worse and worse at hiding it. I just don’t know what to do so maybe venting could help a bit idk.

Iyad Doughy muscles
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Hi does anyone after anxiety like for 3 months suffer from all his muscles turn soft ? I remember i took 5-htp pills for a month only and dont know whats going on ist from pills or something else ? I do have also like internal vibrating or muscles Fa... View more

Hi does anyone after anxiety like for 3 months suffer from all his muscles turn soft ? I remember i took 5-htp pills for a month only and dont know whats going on ist from pills or something else ? I do have also like internal vibrating or muscles Fasciculations that never stop when resting beside thining hair and keep falling and dry hair and skin and eyes .. just depressed

81oct anxiety
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Am 87 years old, female. Over the years have suffered anxiety & received good help from an extra hour with particularly kind GPs. At present these Drs have more worries to deal with so am looking for other help.I appear confident to friends but under... View more

Am 87 years old, female. Over the years have suffered anxiety & received good help from an extra hour with particularly kind GPs. At present these Drs have more worries to deal with so am looking for other help.I appear confident to friends but underneath moving into groups of people can be worrying. Having a few medical problems lately has brought this on again, I want to get going, but am finding it very hard.

Alel Messed myself up
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What if I am making myself belive I am autistic, so I think I am and made my sister think I am. I'm afraid of being diagnosed with autism or just any mental illness/disability. But I am also afraid of there never being an answer to what I've been exp... View more

What if I am making myself belive I am autistic, so I think I am and made my sister think I am. I'm afraid of being diagnosed with autism or just any mental illness/disability. But I am also afraid of there never being an answer to what I've been experiencing my whole life. I keep researching about mental health because I keep thinking that what I'm going through has to mean something and that something is going to change. I know its just anxiety and depression, but I dont know why I can't accept it. Do I want to be broken? Do I want to be different? I shouldn't be wanting mental illness, but at the same time I wish that I was so it can explain my brain. I've known I've had anxiety and depression ever since I was younger (although it wasn't as bad as now) but it couldn't have been the reason for everything I went through. I've worked on anxiety and depression fog years, but nothing changed or gotten better, so I thought it might just be smth else. But it's not, and I can't seem to accept it. I just feel broken, everyday when I remember my life and who I am, I just feel broken. I'm sorry. Thinking this way is probably narcissistic and attention seeking. But I thought it was best to say the truth so I can fix it before I get too sucked into the whole mental health part of the internet. I find myself being really obsessed with mental health and I want to just accept myself. But I feel like I can't do that unless I get told I have a mental illness or disability, so that i know I'm not entirely broken. And I can get fixed. I'll work on stopping my obsession with mental health and only living in the moment. It's better to stop persuading myself I'm someone I'm not. I feel like I messed myself up by living in my head my whole life and only thinking about what's wrong with me. I spent my whole life constantly trying to figure myself out and why I feel different, that I got attached to different mental illness completly believing I had them, only to realise it doesn't seem right or it doesn't satisfy me. So I fall back into depression and anxiety. What if I just caused this upon myself? What if I wanted to be different that I made myself developed depression and anxiety over the years? What if im crazy and messed up in the head? I mean I'm writing this with no facial expression or emotions, but I truly am trying to write how I feel. But I feel like I'm always lying or acting, even tho I am trying to write how I feel. But what if im not? What if im pretending and I haven't noticed? What if im lying to myself that this is how I feel? What if I don't actually feel this way and I'm a evil person who believes their good? Please help. I don't want to go insane. That's one of my biggest phobias. How do I stop thinking I'm a character and actually just exist? Why is everything about my mental health my whole life? Why is messed up? Is it because of me? Will I ever know? Do I just have to live with this brain? Is this normal? Will I ever feel normal or okay?

StygianOwl Anxiety about a possible DSP review
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Hi, I'm not sure if this is the place to post but I have nobody to talk to about this. I'm 28 years old and got the Disability Support Pension when I was around 17 or 18. It would have been from depression and anxiety which I no longer have any evide... View more

Hi, I'm not sure if this is the place to post but I have nobody to talk to about this. I'm 28 years old and got the Disability Support Pension when I was around 17 or 18. It would have been from depression and anxiety which I no longer have any evidence for. When I was 20, I got diagnosed with Autism level 2, which I do have evidence of, which explains my depression, anxiety, plus a whole lot more issues I struggle with. Over the years, I reached a point where I wanted to pursue university, as I was able to work on my mental health and became curious about working. I completed a program to get into university and got into a social work degree which I am doing part time. I moved out of home my first year and my parents also moved away to another state so with the DSP I can pay rent and anything I need. Here is where my anxiety is kicking in and it is to levels I don't think I've felt before. I'm almost halfway through my degree and I've been having thoughts of having to be reviewe. If I do have one and they cut my payment, I will be forced to either work and do uni, or stop uni altogther and move back with my parents.I think I could work now, but since I'm at university, I feel like both would completely overwhelming and my mental health would decline much to where I was when I started DSP. I really want to become a social worker. I don't have any qualifications and don't know what else I'd do. The idea that I could be reviewed at any moment or even the last semester of my degree and denied payment is destroyting me mentally. I see a psychologist and am registered with the NDIS and see a support worker, so maybe I could get documentation by them? I'm just scared and afraid that the path I've carved out from being on DSP could be ruined by it as well.

Sarah8 Nervous and anxious about everything especially funeral today
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Hello all I have anxiety and have my husbands mums funeral today. I am extremely nervous as it's a private funeral and my family are there and are quite judgy and in worried about what they will say. I know it's stupid and I should be focusing on my ... View more

Hello all I have anxiety and have my husbands mums funeral today. I am extremely nervous as it's a private funeral and my family are there and are quite judgy and in worried about what they will say. I know it's stupid and I should be focusing on my husband and his mum but I can't. Please help me