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BeyondBlue Hi! Check out this post if you're not sure how to start
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Hi there and welcome to the Anxiety section of the Forums First of all, thank you so much for joining us here. We think it’s amazing that you’ve taken this step to getting support and learning from this Community. You are very welcome here and we are... View more

Hi there and welcome to the Anxiety section of the Forums First of all, thank you so much for joining us here. We think it’s amazing that you’ve taken this step to getting support and learning from this Community. You are very welcome here and we are really interested in what you might want to add to these conversations. We get it, having anxiety makes it hard to share in a public place. Remember, this is anonymous and the Beyond Blue team are here to help if you need it This section is for people who are experiencing anxiety in some form in their lives. This might be in social settings, at work, or just in the day to day. You don’t need a diagnosis to post here. If it feels like the right spot for your post, go right ahead! We know that feeling anxious can make it hard to reach out so we want you to know that getting this far is amazing and a great start. A few tips for getting the most out of this section: Get involved when you can! Posting and replying is the heartbeat of this community and you DO have something worthwhile to share (when you’re ready ) Every experience is different. There is no competition here. We know how challenging anxiety can be and how it comes in all shapes and sizes. What you are experiencing will be respected and supported here. Trust yourself! You are the expert in your experience. This community works because people like you share what has worked for you. Thank you for getting involved and taking a look. We can’t wait to hear from you! Beyond Blue

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Me2121 Scared of ending up alone
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I can't stop worrying about ending up alone. I'm 34 and have severe anxiety. Lately I can't stop worrying about what's going to happen to me once my parents pass away. I have no children or partner. It's constantly on my mind. I've tried telling myse... View more

I can't stop worrying about ending up alone. I'm 34 and have severe anxiety. Lately I can't stop worrying about what's going to happen to me once my parents pass away. I have no children or partner. It's constantly on my mind. I've tried telling myself I'll be OK but it doesn't help. I've tried challenging thoughts etc. Nothing seems to help.

Shark Feeling scared
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Why do i feel like this? I was having a good start to the day. Now i am shacky heart beat racing nearly in tears dry mouth and now do not want to leave the house

Why do i feel like this? I was having a good start to the day. Now i am shacky heart beat racing nearly in tears dry mouth and now do not want to leave the house

Warren2103 Which way is up?
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I’m a 49-year-old gay guy who feels like he’s hit a dead end in life. I work in corporate risk management, and honestly, it’s completely unfulfilling. I’ve spent almost 20 years in the corporate world and I’ve never really enjoyed it. As I’ve gotten ... View more

I’m a 49-year-old gay guy who feels like he’s hit a dead end in life. I work in corporate risk management, and honestly, it’s completely unfulfilling. I’ve spent almost 20 years in the corporate world and I’ve never really enjoyed it. As I’ve gotten older, I’ve become increasingly disengaged, not just from work, but from a lot of things in life. I’ve let my health slide, I’m overweight (not huge, but definitely heavier than I should be), and I’m constantly tired. I feel frustrated because I have no idea how to get out of this cycle. I want to leave the corporate world, but I have absolutely no idea what I’d be good at or where to even begin. I don’t even have anything I could really call a passion either. I was diagnosed with mild depression and anxiety before COVID, and lately I’ve wondered if I might also have some form of ADHD. I’ve always struggled to learn new things quickly, stay focused, and stay organised. Those issues have made my work life very challenging at times, and work has always been a major trigger for my anxiety, especially when I feel like I’m drowning. Right now, I don’t know where to start, who to talk to, or how to figure out my next move. What I do know is that I don’t want to be in the same place in another 20 years. If anyone has gone through this and come out the other end, I’d love to know your storyor get some advice. Thank you.

Dana J chronic jaw pain and extreme anxiety
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I’ve had jaw pain off and on for a few years. I had xrays done a few years ago and there was some minor damage due to clenching. I was referred to a specialist and the experience was kind of horrible. He was an older specialist and I left feeling lik... View more

I’ve had jaw pain off and on for a few years. I had xrays done a few years ago and there was some minor damage due to clenching. I was referred to a specialist and the experience was kind of horrible. He was an older specialist and I left feeling like he saw me as a hysterical woman type who couldn’t handle her stress and told me to get a splint and wear it during times of stress and left it at that. So I did that and it worked on and off for a while and there was even a time earlier this year that I didn’t need to wear it at all. But the last three weeks my jaw has been starting to hurt, despite wearing the splint every night. The last four days the pain has become a constant dull ache and painkillers aren’t working which is a first for me. I’m constantly thinking about the pain in my face, I’m getting on the stationary bike and trying to get my endorphins up and getting some sunshine but it’s not working. I’m now freaking out thinking I’ve done serious damage and I’m scared to sleep because I know I’m essentially attacking myself in my sleep by clenching my jaw. My GP who I trust implicitly and is very kind and understanding does not have an appointment available for more than two weeks. I’ve made an appointment with TMJ physio at the end of the week. But in the meantime I feel physically sick all the time, and hot and like I’m on the verge of a panic attack. I’m finding it difficult to eat (because I feel sick not because of the pain) and I’m so overwhelmed I’m struggling to contain it. I keep telling myself it’s going to be ok, I know that perimenopause had made my anxiety so much worse but it’s not stopping these terrible feelings and I am now feeling very helpless. I can’t switch this warning bell in my body off and it’s such a horrible feeling.

Hayden Battling nervous system
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I am at the start of recovery. Yesterday I thought about ending my life. I texted my wife and informed her that I would be taking myself to the hospital. She took me instead. I had new meds prescribed. But I need to wait for previous ones to wear off... View more

I am at the start of recovery. Yesterday I thought about ending my life. I texted my wife and informed her that I would be taking myself to the hospital. She took me instead. I had new meds prescribed. But I need to wait for previous ones to wear off. Anxiety and thoughts crash into me. Feel it in my mind and body, like drug withdrawal? I know my family are supportive but I have always been the supporter. I am grateful for people in my life helping me. I am so tired now trying to stay awake so I don’t wake up a 4am when everyone is asleep and I’m alone.

crazykittyclaws being a bit dramatic about stranger danger
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Hello, this is my first time posting on this forum so please bear with me!I am 17 and since the start of this year, I feel irrationally anxious going out on casual walks in my neighbour hood. It's ridiculous because I grew up there and I take the sam... View more

Hello, this is my first time posting on this forum so please bear with me!I am 17 and since the start of this year, I feel irrationally anxious going out on casual walks in my neighbour hood. It's ridiculous because I grew up there and I take the same route every time, but lately stepping outside and having cars drive by me, I get so scared I'll suddenly get yanked inside or they'll stop next to me and shove me in their boot. Dramatic I know, but whenever I feel or see a car driving up behind me, I freeze and wait for it to pass before I can continue walking. Every person I pass, I double check and mentally categorise as a potential suspect for kidnapping. Except I feel like I'm being a crazy person, because sometimes when I enter smaller streets and I see a car turn into the same road or direction I am walking on. I stop and immediately just walk back home. Normally a walk would take me half an hour, but now its been cut down to only fifteen or twenty minutes. I don't even walk around at night, its literally the middle of the day. The sun is out, everybody is out, but I just can't. I flinch at birds flying over me, or cars backing out of driveways. The thing is that my school bus stop is fifteen minutes away from my house, I have been taking the same path for two years at this point. But sometimes if I see a car or somebody my brain screams dangerous, I freeze and genuinely wonder if I should just go home. I have to literally gaslight myself by telling myself I'm a fake friend if I don't go, just so I can hop on public transport. I swear this never happened at all two years ago and it frustrates me because I can't even walk the full path I usually take, yet I want to walk further for exercise. Any advice on how to overcome this?

Butterfly101 Crippling Anxiety - things that can help
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Ok - I woke up this morning in a cold sweat - fear and anxiety were in complete control of me and all morning and most of the afternoon, catasrophic and severely negative thoughts swirling endlessly around in my head - I could not see a way out. I co... View more

Ok - I woke up this morning in a cold sweat - fear and anxiety were in complete control of me and all morning and most of the afternoon, catasrophic and severely negative thoughts swirling endlessly around in my head - I could not see a way out. I could not think straight. Everything was doomed. I couldn’t cope! At around 4 pm I rang the beyond blue helpline, and I started to take deep breaths in and out remembering this is what I had done before to manage my anxiety. It helped. Slow deep breaths in and out. The phone councillor answered and I explained what was happening. She was kind, understanding and knowledgeable. She texted me a list of strategies that could help my condition. Stay in the moment, she said. Don’t let these catastophic thoughts about your future get the better of you. You are not thinking clearly right now. Focus on breathing and relaxing your body and mind. Nothing else. Just aim for relaxation - don’t worry about tomorrow now. She then suggested listening to calming music, so I you tubed ‘meditation music’ and found a clip with the Tibetan flute. I played it and it was very soothing. I thanked the counsel lot and hung up the phone. Lay on my sofa, breathing slowly and deeply and listening to the Tibetan flute. I kept saying to myself ‘go to sleep … just sleep.. just rest you body and mind’ and with my dog lowing next to me I drifted off to sleep! I was out for maybe 3 hours and already feel much better. Had a cup of herbal tea and now watching Dr Mariam Bialik podcast on you tube ‘ Thomas Campbell physicist’ - so interesting and helpful. Good to watch as it puts your negative thoughts about your future in real perspective. Highly recommended! OK I am starting to get hungry so I will leave now. I will not have any alcohol as that makes my anxiety worse and I will not smoke. I will focus on the here and now and think about my future when I am feeling better and have a clearer head. Tomorrow or the next day… no rush! I only have planned two things for tomorrow- take my dogs for a nice long walk in nature and make a nice marinade for a roast lamb. That is it! I am taking time out from my highly destructive thoughts of my future! Hope my story has helped someone!

Guest_35774297 PARTNERS DRINKING
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I find Xmas time hard. My husband seems to booze more and it makes me very teary and anxious. My dad was a boozer. I get it it is related to that. Any tips to ease how I feel

I find Xmas time hard. My husband seems to booze more and it makes me very teary and anxious. My dad was a boozer. I get it it is related to that. Any tips to ease how I feel

EvaMaria Can't stop
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I keep wanting to spend my free time reading a romance or meditating and don't push through, because i go onto my phone or I'm anxious about the pile of laundry, the dishes, and even the state of the floor. And just thinking about them also causes me... View more

I keep wanting to spend my free time reading a romance or meditating and don't push through, because i go onto my phone or I'm anxious about the pile of laundry, the dishes, and even the state of the floor. And just thinking about them also causes me to pull out my hair. I think I'm just struggling to take the time to just stay still, of sorts. Does anyone have possibly any advice or suggestions for me to use?

MRG First time posting
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Hi I’m an older male, and have been feeling anxious, and not sleeping well.I have been prescribed medication to take. My Gp said it would ease my feelings after a couple of weeks. This was about 3 weeks ago. I have taken only 3 tablets and I think I’... View more

Hi I’m an older male, and have been feeling anxious, and not sleeping well.I have been prescribed medication to take. My Gp said it would ease my feelings after a couple of weeks. This was about 3 weeks ago. I have taken only 3 tablets and I think I’m fine. But clearly I’m not. I feel a bit anxious to go to work. I start quite early in the morning for my job. Finding it hard to unwind, and feel myself. I just wanted to know if I should see a psychologist to make sure, I’m on the right track. Thanks.

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