Anxiety from work and life in general

Guest_47687442
Community Member

Hey all, new to the Beyond Blue forums but i thought it would be good to check in and share my current situation. 

Everything was going smoothly for a number of years at work and in life and then a new management team came along and they want all out all change in the organisation and they've started the process with lack of warning or communication. 

Its hard to process and think about, having a steady job, paying off the mortgage and looking after elder family members and then suddenly your workplace wants to go through drastic change.   

Honestly, not sure what to do and its creating anxiety for me as it may mean looking for other roles and/or moving elsewhere. 

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Sophie_M
Moderator
Hi Reddish_blue123,

Welcome to the Forums! We’re really glad you’ve found us here. This is a supportive space where you can share what you're going through and connect with others who truly understand.

We’re sorry to hear how much this organisational change is impacting you. Your feelings are completely valid - major shifts at work can be incredibly unsettling and leave us questioning our future in a role or organisation that may have once felt steady. When you’ve got repayments to make and people to care for, the stakes can feel higher, too.

Sitting with that uncertainty is tough, especially when things felt stable not long ago. Be kind to yourself as you navigate these emotions. It’s okay if it takes time to feel ready to explore your next steps. Is there anything you’ve found helpful in looking after yourself during this time?

If you ever feel like talking things through, Beyond Blue’s Support Service is available 24/7 on 1300 22 4636 or via webchat.

Thank you again for sharing here. We’re here to support you, and you’re always welcome to return to the thread and share updates when you’re ready. 

Kind regards
Sophie M
 

njo
Community Member

6 months ago, the first official day of  new winery manager. I had served 9 years and seven months this time around. I had worked there previously for a different company. It's a long story. On his first day all staff under him was called into for a chat. I was excited, this new guy was going to bring change for the better. Change like enforcing gmp, accountability. Now I might not have to pack up other people's mess. 

 

The cellar supervisor and I had a working relationship like siblings. We had worked together for a long time.

We are the same only I'm diagnosed/medicated and he isn't. He won't seek help, doesn't believe in the condition. I'm no doctor. But he's got it. We either got along great or not at all. 

 

New managers first day. I'm excited thinking he will bring gmp to site.

My work was my world, everything. 

He presents me with a letter , notice of (termination)resignation. I shouldn't have signed , but I felt like I had no choice. 

And get this,  there reason personality. Full praises for my work ethics. Not a problem there. My personality. Only 1 person there had a problem with my personality. And all of us on the floor have a problem with his personality.  It's not so much what he said, (although he is a hypocrite, giving out warnings but does the same thing. How not to lead.) It's the tone and how he said it. He gets in your face, chased me to the car once yelling and beating on my window, because I didn't want to engage in his arguments. It's a long hard story to explain. 

So reading your story sounds abit like mine. Mine situation is not great 😭

Hopefully it gets better, and works out for the best.