topic Re: Tough night in Grief and loss

Tough night

Renie — Fri, 10 Jul 2026 10:16:53 GMT

Hello tonight has been a tough night , I had to rehome our gorgeous golden retriever last Sunday . He has gone to a farm which will be better for him missing him . Also crying as my ex partner passed away 3 months ago. It’s been a particular rough start to the year . I keep replaying his voicemails just to hear his voice and it makes me sad that I won’t hear his voice again or see him again .❤️

Re: Tough night

Psychdiaries2 — Sun, 12 Jul 2026 10:22:46 GMT

Hi there,

Welcome back to the forums. I'm sorry to hear about what you're going through today. I understand you miss your golden retriever but at the same time, know that rehoming him was better for him and that he'll be ok. Still, it's ok to miss him, I'm sure he was a great comfort to have at home. I can tell that you really care and love your ex partner in how you're listening to the sound of his voice over and over. It's ok to sit with these feelings of grief and important to not let them bottle up. It's ok to be heartbroken, it's really hard to lose someone.

Please look after yourself today. If you have anyone in your life to open up about this with, then do so. You are welcome to keep reaching out on here too of course. We are here for you

Kind regards,

PsychDiaries

Re: Tough night

Renie — Sun, 12 Jul 2026 13:29:17 GMT

Thank you yes I loved my ex with my whole heart. My beautiful boy is also happy on the farm but miss him . I also lost my aunty this year as well . Thanks for your advice . It’s much appreciated .