topic Re: Help missing him in Grief and loss

Help missing him

Renie — Thu, 04 Jun 2026 07:15:18 GMT

Hi my partner passed away 2 months ago we separated 8 weeks prior . He did have me as next kin and a photo of me in his wallet and us on his bedside table .

i have since discovered he cheated on me last year . Which has been heartbreaking . I still love and miss him .

Re: Help missing him

melodica — Thu, 04 Jun 2026 07:27:13 GMT

I’m so sorry. Losing someone you still love is hard enough, and finding out about the cheating on top of that adds another layer of hurt and confusion. It makes sense that you miss him and feel heartbroken at the same time. Both things can be true.

Please be gentle with yourself while you carry all of this.

We are here to support you if you need to chat.

Re: Help missing him

Renie — Thu, 04 Jun 2026 09:12:47 GMT

Thank you so much . It’s only been two months and I was the one who had to decide to turn off his life support . I met him four years ago today and have been crying . I truly loved him x

Re: Help missing him

melodica — Thu, 04 Jun 2026 09:25:15 GMT

I am so sorry. Having to make the decision to turn off his life support is an unimaginable weight to carry, and two months is no time at all.

It makes complete sense that today, on the anniversary of the day you met, you are in tears. Your love for him is so clear, and it is valid to mourn that deeply.

If you need to talk to someone right now, the Beyond Blue Support Service is available on 1300 22 4636 or online at https://www.beyondblue.org.au/get-support. You can also call Griefline on 1300 845 745.

I am really glad that you reached out to share this today. Please remember that we are here to provide support too, and you are always welcome to keep talking to us here whenever you need a safe space.

Re: Help missing him

Renie — Thu, 04 Jun 2026 10:24:33 GMT

Thank you I really appreciate that . We did say we love you in our final moments . It’s been hard discovering he cheated and kept a secret and deceptive side . But I also know he gone now and in time will

learn how to focus on our good memories instead