https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/grief-and-loss/pet-loss-and-grief/m-p/618928#M5765 <P>My dog of almost 15 years is almost at the end of her life. We're at the stage of deciding when is the right time to let her go. I struggle so much because it never feels like the right time. I do not cope well with loss at all. I can't eat, I cry all the time. My heart hurts so much. She's been with our family for so long. She was our baby before we had kids. They don't know life without her either.</P><P>My mum passed away from cancer when I was 16. My daughter also battled cancer as a baby. I know I can get through grief, but man its such a struggle. I seriously hurt so much with things coming to an end. The grief is intense. I feel rage. I hurt so much I just want it all to end so I don't feel this way. Anyway, just wanted to vent and share how I was feeling.</P> Wed, 04 Mar 2026 03:44:24 GMT Guest_24203436 2026-03-04T03:44:24Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/grief-and-loss/pet-loss-and-grief/m-p/618928#M5765 <P>My dog of almost 15 years is almost at the end of her life. We're at the stage of deciding when is the right time to let her go. I struggle so much because it never feels like the right time. I do not cope well with loss at all. I can't eat, I cry all the time. My heart hurts so much. She's been with our family for so long. She was our baby before we had kids. They don't know life without her either.</P><P>My mum passed away from cancer when I was 16. My daughter also battled cancer as a baby. I know I can get through grief, but man its such a struggle. I seriously hurt so much with things coming to an end. The grief is intense. I feel rage. I hurt so much I just want it all to end so I don't feel this way. Anyway, just wanted to vent and share how I was feeling.</P> Wed, 04 Mar 2026 03:44:24 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/grief-and-loss/pet-loss-and-grief/m-p/618928#M5765 Guest_24203436 2026-03-04T03:44:24Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/grief-and-loss/pet-loss-and-grief/m-p/618933#M5766 <P>Well it's never easy when we loose or know we are about to loose a loved one, person or pet. Nothing can really make it easier even though it's a natural process, and is a normal part of life. In this case the important thing is that your dog doesn't suffer and I'm sure she knows how much you love her. I have had many many pets over the years and one thing is certain. You'll always have those memories and one day when it's right you'll choose to share your life and the families with another pet.</P> Wed, 04 Mar 2026 06:17:29 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/grief-and-loss/pet-loss-and-grief/m-p/618933#M5766 Alikiwi 2026-03-04T06:17:29Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/grief-and-loss/pet-loss-and-grief/m-p/618945#M5767 <P>Hello, I can relate with the grief of losing a pet. I still remember the heartbreak when my cat died over 20 years ago. I wish you strength to get through this journey.</P> Wed, 04 Mar 2026 11:20:24 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/grief-and-loss/pet-loss-and-grief/m-p/618945#M5767 michiru_maeda 2026-03-04T11:20:24Z