https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/grief-and-loss/better-off-without/m-p/600436#M5356 <P>I know this will be met with opposition. &nbsp; Im suffering and angry at myself for not staying single. &nbsp;If you get involved with someone special it always ends in pain and suffering. &nbsp;You break up or they die or for what ever reason you cant be together. &nbsp; This forum is filled with people suffering over grief. &nbsp; Why do we do this to ourselves. &nbsp; Do people feel grief less than I do or have they got some secret I dont know about. For me grief terrifies me and I do question why I got involved at all. &nbsp; I know this can never happen again no matter how wonderful it can be. &nbsp; I will never give my heart again because thats how I need to take care myself. &nbsp; Its not like im sad for a week or two but months if not years.</P><P>I really dont understand why we love only to get sick as a result. &nbsp;Its some paradox</P> Thu, 26 Sep 2024 05:31:05 GMT Scared 2024-09-26T05:31:05Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/grief-and-loss/better-off-without/m-p/600436#M5356 <P>I know this will be met with opposition. &nbsp; Im suffering and angry at myself for not staying single. &nbsp;If you get involved with someone special it always ends in pain and suffering. &nbsp;You break up or they die or for what ever reason you cant be together. &nbsp; This forum is filled with people suffering over grief. &nbsp; Why do we do this to ourselves. &nbsp; Do people feel grief less than I do or have they got some secret I dont know about. For me grief terrifies me and I do question why I got involved at all. &nbsp; I know this can never happen again no matter how wonderful it can be. &nbsp; I will never give my heart again because thats how I need to take care myself. &nbsp; Its not like im sad for a week or two but months if not years.</P><P>I really dont understand why we love only to get sick as a result. &nbsp;Its some paradox</P> Thu, 26 Sep 2024 05:31:05 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/grief-and-loss/better-off-without/m-p/600436#M5356 Scared 2024-09-26T05:31:05Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/grief-and-loss/better-off-without/m-p/600486#M5357 <P>ScaredI can fell your pain in your words.</P><P>Grief has no use by date and can take us my surprise and control our feelings.&nbsp;</P><P>I can understand your grief and have felt similar feelings .&nbsp;<BR /><BR /></P><P>&nbsp;</P><P>&nbsp;</P><P>&nbsp;</P><P>&nbsp;</P><P>&nbsp;</P><P>&nbsp;</P><P>&nbsp;</P> Fri, 27 Sep 2024 09:55:53 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/grief-and-loss/better-off-without/m-p/600486#M5357 quirkywords 2024-09-27T09:55:53Z