https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/grief-and-loss/feeling-lost/m-p/551205#M4683 Kannf<BR /> <BR /> sorry your partner is treating you in a disrespectful way.<BR /> <BR /> He sounds like he has anger issues especially since he talks to his mum and sister Sally and you like that.<BR /> <BR /> Some people are rude and controlling to their partner but kind to others. Your partner Also says stupid remarks to his mum and sister.<BR /> <BR /> Have you asked if he wants to be in the relationship…?<BR /> <BR /> Have you support from your friends and family as it can be very exhausting living with Someone who is so demanding.<BR /> <BR /> You are not alone. We are listening. Tue, 01 Nov 2022 16:54:57 GMT quirkywords 2022-11-01T16:54:57Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/grief-and-loss/feeling-lost/m-p/551189#M4682 <P>Hello all so I’m a little confused, please help? my partner and I have been together for nearly and a year now and we have been fighting a lot more regularly mainly over my co dependency &amp; then we fight about not being able to see eye to eye. Then it goes on and on and on…….<BR /> I also find his constantly making stupid remarks not just to me but his mother and sister too. Then I tell him his being annoying but then he say’s I’m rude for saying that his being annoying?&nbsp;<BR /> Whenever i mention his words hurt my feeling’s it’s almost like he makes me</P> <P>feel like I shouldn’t have any feeling’s towards how he makes me feel or what he does with his life?&nbsp;<BR /> Like am I going insane guys?&nbsp;</P> <P>i dunno he doesn’t seem to take responsibility for anything his words, his actions, his choices, something bad happen’s to him &amp; his straight away loosing it.</P> <P>At the start he said to me “your lucky to be with me you just snuck in” like WT&nbsp;is that? How did we end up together if he didn’t want a relationship at the start.?&nbsp;</P> <P>It’s like he made it out like I got myself into this relationship not him.?&nbsp;<BR /> If his not arguing with his mother it’s me if it’s not me his fighting with life it’s just consistent &amp; I feel like I’m shutting down like I just don’t wanna talk anymore I mean what’s the point?&nbsp;</P> Tue, 01 Nov 2022 02:47:18 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/grief-and-loss/feeling-lost/m-p/551189#M4682 KannF 2022-11-01T02:47:18Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/grief-and-loss/feeling-lost/m-p/551205#M4683 Kannf<BR /> <BR /> sorry your partner is treating you in a disrespectful way.<BR /> <BR /> He sounds like he has anger issues especially since he talks to his mum and sister Sally and you like that.<BR /> <BR /> Some people are rude and controlling to their partner but kind to others. Your partner Also says stupid remarks to his mum and sister.<BR /> <BR /> Have you asked if he wants to be in the relationship…?<BR /> <BR /> Have you support from your friends and family as it can be very exhausting living with Someone who is so demanding.<BR /> <BR /> You are not alone. We are listening. Tue, 01 Nov 2022 16:54:57 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/grief-and-loss/feeling-lost/m-p/551205#M4683 quirkywords 2022-11-01T16:54:57Z