topic Hi Pete in Heaven in Grief and loss

Hi Pete in Heaven

Rosie49 — Sun, 12 Apr 2015 12:33:32 GMT

We all missed you today at your nephew's Naming Day. But you live on in Deb, Dean, Shan, Kiesh and Zay. I hate when people think I should be "over it" . I will never be "over" losing you. I just have to try to learn to live without you in my life, after 20 wonderful years. . 16 months on and I'm slowly getting there, but it still sucks. I love you and miss you like crazy Pete. You were too young to die. You are "Always on my Mind". Love you mate, Ciao for now. No need to respond. Just needed to express how much my soul mate is loved and missed. Love you Pete. xxx

Hi Pete in Heaven

Doolhof — Sun, 12 Apr 2015 21:52:20 GMT

Hi Rosie49,

Thanks for sharing your beautiful message.

Memories of loved ones can be both beautiful and so devastating at the same time.

Cherish the memories always and your soul mate will always live on in your heart.

Kind regards, Mrs. Dools

Hi Pete in Heaven

geoff — Mon, 13 Apr 2015 00:14:57 GMT

dear Rosie, when someone posts a comment like yours, it naturally means that we feel as though we would like to respond to the loss which you have had to endue.

Our heartfelt condolences extend out to you in every way that's possible, and we do appreciate and thank you for sharing this very sad moment with us all.

Your healing will take as long as you want it to, and no one can ever tell you to move on, because this will happen in your own time.

Our very best wishes. Geoff. x

Hi Pete in Heaven

demonblaster — Thu, 21 May 2015 10:27:41 GMT

Very hard isn't it Rosie 🙂

I too have lost a partner, we love eachother very much so I have an idea of what pain you're going through.
He also is a Pete. (Petie)
For me it's still early months and I feel that way too that people must be thinking I should be getting over it but fortunately there's a lot saying it's still early days which it is.
We were 28 yrs together.

As above said it'll take as long as you need. I've heard quite often grieving is an individual process without time limits.

Great to be able to talk about it isn't it.

Time does help and ease the pain. We never forget people we love 🙂

Take care