https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/sexuality-and-gender-identity/don-t-know-what-to-do-anymore/m-p/501957#M5571 Hello, I am trans non-binary 29 years old been out about it for the last 2 years of my life. I think it's fair to say I hate my life so much everything is just pain... So I'm am finding it very hard to be around my family. It's not like there not supportive or anything it's just clear they don't understand me. I know should be happy that they accept and support me but I find myself stuck between identifies with them. It's at a point now where I can't help but feel so much pain and loneliness just by been around or thinking about them. So what does one do? How can I stop feeling like this or at the very least not to be alone anymore... Sun, 20 Oct 2019 05:17:01 GMT Zi 2019-10-20T05:17:01Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/sexuality-and-gender-identity/don-t-know-what-to-do-anymore/m-p/501957#M5571 Hello, I am trans non-binary 29 years old been out about it for the last 2 years of my life. I think it's fair to say I hate my life so much everything is just pain... So I'm am finding it very hard to be around my family. It's not like there not supportive or anything it's just clear they don't understand me. I know should be happy that they accept and support me but I find myself stuck between identifies with them. It's at a point now where I can't help but feel so much pain and loneliness just by been around or thinking about them. So what does one do? How can I stop feeling like this or at the very least not to be alone anymore... Sun, 20 Oct 2019 05:17:01 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/sexuality-and-gender-identity/don-t-know-what-to-do-anymore/m-p/501957#M5571 Zi 2019-10-20T05:17:01Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/sexuality-and-gender-identity/don-t-know-what-to-do-anymore/m-p/501958#M5572 <P>Hello Zi,</P> <P>I may not understand the concept of trans non-binary but I am happy that you openly did it. Don't regret and hat for telling people your identity is. What you are is what you are. Nature made that way and you accept that. Accepting someone with this is already a starting point for them understanding you. Eventually they will understand you and accept just what you are. Do not change your identity. Just be what you are without misleading the true feeling.</P> Sun, 20 Oct 2019 09:48:00 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/sexuality-and-gender-identity/don-t-know-what-to-do-anymore/m-p/501958#M5572 MyLadyGirl 2019-10-20T09:48:00Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/sexuality-and-gender-identity/don-t-know-what-to-do-anymore/m-p/501959#M5573 hm. just a thought ladygirl but if someone tells you “i feel really lonely because my family tries to support me but doesn’t understand my identity as a non-binary person” maybe the correct response isn’t “i don’t understand your identity <span class="lia-unicode-emoji" title=":red_heart:">❤️</span> live laugh love tho” Sun, 20 Oct 2019 22:09:17 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/sexuality-and-gender-identity/don-t-know-what-to-do-anymore/m-p/501959#M5573 eight 2019-10-20T22:09:17Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/sexuality-and-gender-identity/don-t-know-what-to-do-anymore/m-p/501960#M5574 <P>Hello eight,</P> <P>There are people in the society that do not understand one identity and it's hard for them. Hiding your true identity maybe because society does not accept what and who you are is the society issues. The world is changing and there are people thoughts that can't change especially when people are in their 50s or 60s sometimes 70s too. They think another way round. We can't teach people what a non-binary people are but we can help them understand what and who they are and how their character are. In that way they will understand. It's a matter of understanding the identity.</P> Mon, 21 Oct 2019 02:26:01 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/sexuality-and-gender-identity/don-t-know-what-to-do-anymore/m-p/501960#M5574 MyLadyGirl 2019-10-21T02:26:01Z