topic 28 female please help in Sexuality and gender identity

28 female please help

Tails91 — Thu, 30 May 2019 14:54:37 GMT

It’s there any other women married with kids and still stuck in the closet and doesn’t no how to or wen to come out I need to talk to someone in same situation I’m really struggling 😞

28 female please help

geoff — Thu, 30 May 2019 18:26:54 GMT

Hell Tails, it's a pleasure welcoming you to the forums, and excuse me for answering your question but from what you have told us, I believe that there could be some males in exactly the same position.

Best wishes.

Geoff.

28 female please help

Tails91 — Thu, 30 May 2019 23:27:28 GMT

Hi Geoff

the forums ive read majority are male but I really hoping to find a women in my persistion

are u in the same boat Geoff ?

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Sophie_M — Thu, 30 May 2019 23:48:57 GMT

Hi Tails91, this area of the forums can be a bit less busy from time to time. We would suggest having a read through the following long-running thread, it's from one of our members in a similar situation:

https://www.beyondblue.org.au/get-support/online-forums/sexuality-and-gender-identity/wanting-to-push-forward-but-partner-in-denial

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geoff — Fri, 31 May 2019 01:51:36 GMT

Hi Tails, no I'm not, and I really appreciate Sophie_M's reply back to you.

It was only just a welcome comment by me.

Best wishes.

Geoff.

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kb1nonly — Mon, 03 Jun 2019 12:22:42 GMT

Hi Talis91,

I am a single mum of 4 and 30, but previously this is something ive struggled with a bit, I feel theres somewhat a stigma around being called bicurious. But then I think for myself it goes deeper to an individual level, but then i dont really know either. I think being with guys is just what I know and accepted. Id have to be braver to go further.

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Tails91 — Mon, 10 Jun 2019 10:21:12 GMT

Hi kb1nonly

yes me to expect I’m trapped in a marriage 😞 I feel horrible

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MissBenthos — Mon, 24 Jun 2019 02:52:58 GMT

Hi Tails,

In what way are you trapped in the marriage? Is it one you want to get out of? Is there a possibility you’d want to explore your sexuality while you’re with your husband in more of an open relationship style? Or is it simply that you want him or other people to know about your feelings even if you may not act on them?