https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/sexuality-and-gender-identity/i-don-t-even-know-anymore/m-p/443280#M4858 Ok so in a nutshell I'm bi curious and i have no idea whats going on. If you have any advice or anything then please reply aha i'm so lost rn. Fri, 01 May 2020 02:53:42 GMT Bowie_Fandom_64 2020-05-01T02:53:42Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/sexuality-and-gender-identity/i-don-t-even-know-anymore/m-p/443280#M4858 Ok so in a nutshell I'm bi curious and i have no idea whats going on. If you have any advice or anything then please reply aha i'm so lost rn. Fri, 01 May 2020 02:53:42 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/sexuality-and-gender-identity/i-don-t-even-know-anymore/m-p/443280#M4858 Bowie_Fandom_64 2020-05-01T02:53:42Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/sexuality-and-gender-identity/i-don-t-even-know-anymore/m-p/443281#M4859 advice, advice... this will be a very hard question but what's the advice you want? or what are you going to do with the fact you're bi. do you think about coming out or a relationship or how to cope. i know you've said you're year 8 so you're probably like thirteen (<I>holy shit a baby</I>) and I know when you're young like that its hard its so hard to peel anything apart from what you're feeling. but whats something specifically on your mind? Fri, 01 May 2020 05:00:23 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/sexuality-and-gender-identity/i-don-t-even-know-anymore/m-p/443281#M4859 eight 2020-05-01T05:00:23Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/sexuality-and-gender-identity/i-don-t-even-know-anymore/m-p/443282#M4860 Well the main thing on my mind is coming out. like when should i, to who, and how? and like, what if i come out, then discover i'm actually straight? What will my family and friends think? Sun, 03 May 2020 07:40:08 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/sexuality-and-gender-identity/i-don-t-even-know-anymore/m-p/443282#M4860 Bowie_Fandom_64 2020-05-03T07:40:08Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/sexuality-and-gender-identity/i-don-t-even-know-anymore/m-p/443283#M4861 <P>i just think... you should only do it when you're ready. maybe its outed kid trauma but it should be when you want it not some vague moral its 2020 come out already <span class="lia-unicode-emoji" title=":red_heart:">❤️</span> bullshit. they say of course its most sensible to talk to someone you trust and would be understanding (and i can't answer what your family and friends think!) but i understand words in person being hard. if you can't do it in person you can write letters or text or do a call if you don't want to deal with them processing in front of you.</P> <P>i think anyone coming out would be terrified by broe what if im actually straight what if im actually cis. i mean... if that happens to you you can say i think i'm actually straight after all and it doesn't make you a just a phase stereotype youre just devloping man</P> Sun, 03 May 2020 08:29:08 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/sexuality-and-gender-identity/i-don-t-even-know-anymore/m-p/443283#M4861 eight 2020-05-03T08:29:08Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/sexuality-and-gender-identity/i-don-t-even-know-anymore/m-p/443284#M4862 Thanks, that was really helpful! Tue, 05 May 2020 02:54:47 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/sexuality-and-gender-identity/i-don-t-even-know-anymore/m-p/443284#M4862 Bowie_Fandom_64 2020-05-05T02:54:47Z