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Coming to terms with my sexuality and meeting men

MikeyQ — Wed, 05 Jan 2022 03:02:08 GMT

I am a male in my 50's and came out as gay during the last 12 months. As well as struggling with coming to terms with my sexuality (something I was in denial about for most of my life) I am finding it very difficult to meet guys in a similar situation to me. To be honest I don't even know where to start. I haven't had any luck with google etc etc.

Not a fan of dating apps, as I am trying to find a life partner and hook up's for sex just don't interest me.

Any other suggestions would be greatly appreciated to help me embark on the next phase of my life.

Thank you and a Happy New Year to you all.

Coming to terms with my sexuality and meeting men

Maddeline — Wed, 05 Jan 2022 04:35:31 GMT

Hi MikeyQ,

Welcome to the forums and thank you for sharing.

I personally can not relate to your situation but I commend you on your strength to reach out and ask. I have a few sites that are recommended that may assist you.

FTMshed: https://www.ftmshed.com.au/

Touchbase: https://touchbase.org.au/

Qlife: https://qlife.org.au/get-help

These websites are targeted towards the LGBTQIA+ community and are just a few suggestions.

I hope another person joins this chat to provide you with a personal story or invitation to a group.

Hope these help and would love to hear from you! x

Coming to terms with my sexuality and meeting men

MikeyQ — Thu, 06 Jan 2022 00:19:32 GMT

Thanks Maddeline. I appreciate the suggestions.

Coming to terms with my sexuality and meeting men

eight — Thu, 06 Jan 2022 08:03:24 GMT

Maddeline said:
FTMshed: https://www.ftmshed.com.au/

one of the sites you recommmended to him was for transmascs when op isn't transmasc and not looking for transmasc resources

Coming to terms with my sexuality and meeting men

Maddeline — Thu, 06 Jan 2022 08:36:35 GMT

Hi eight,

Thank you for pointing this out and I apologise for my incorrect use of the website.

Coming to terms with my sexuality and meeting men

DJay___ — Mon, 10 Jan 2022 13:09:07 GMT

G'day MikeyQ.

Yes, it sure is challenging to find someone to be more than just a 1 off. I been there on that journey to. Met a great guy who I had a good friendship with who then thanked me very much for teaching him that love can be shared between 2 men. I was happy for him.

J met a man sometime after a breakup with wife at the time as my sexuality saw me seeking out men more and more often. I know you don't want to try apps but I found a Web site called Bi Australia. Was Free to join and you could write letters ( emails) to guys who you had an interest in. I met a lovely guy whom I fell in love with. Sadly he passed away but the experience left me knowing I could love a man quite easily.

Sorry for the long reply, just thought I know where you are coming from.

I'm in a straight relationship at the moment but identify as Pansexual. Can be challenging at times but also rewarding.

If you would like to chat sometime, I'd be happy to.

Kind regards,

Dave.

Coming to terms with my sexuality and meeting men

MikeyQ — Tue, 11 Jan 2022 02:13:51 GMT

Thanks Dave.

I appreciate the response and will check out the website.

Good luck to you and your relationship.

Regards MikeyQ