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Bec_Luke — Fri, 25 Apr 2014 04:24:29 GMT

So today I'm turning 20....it's just a shame that iv gotta spend just today like I do every other day lonely and nothing to do...

I'm just feeling down today and I just feel like crying, it just be nice if just this once I could have a good day and spend it with friends (that I dont have) and do something nice for a change

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Neil_1 — Fri, 25 Apr 2014 08:23:46 GMT

Dear Bec

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU

HAPP BIRTHDAY DEAR BEC

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU

Thank you for coming to let us know that this is your special day. But like you, it does make me sad to hear that YOUR day is a very quiet one. 😞

I do have to ask though Bec - have you scored at least "some" presents????

Bec, I can only assume that you have your birthday in conjunction with ANZAC Day? You perhaps don't know a lot of my background, but my brother - who is no longer in this world anymore - his birthday was today also. Anzac Day - and he'd always joke that his birthday was always a holiday. That's how special he reckoned he was. And he was. And you are too. Don't ever forget that Bec.

Happy birthday again to you.

Kind regards

Neil

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Jo3 — Fri, 25 Apr 2014 08:27:50 GMT

Hi Bec

Happy Birthday to you,

I feel sad that you were alone today but not anymore ...... you have us here to wish you a Happy Birthday. We are your friends.

So to you Bec, Happy Birthday and wishing you many more birthdays to come. Hoping the year ahead brings you lots of joy, health and peace in your life.

Take care

Jo xx

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Neil_1 — Fri, 25 Apr 2014 09:16:55 GMT

Hi Bec

And can I just echo Jo's lovely sentiments to you.

And stay with us, because you've got friends who really care for you here. Sure it's all over an internet site, but we are genuine, we are real and we above all, we really care. It's just a damn shame that we can't supply you with face to face support AND presents for you 🙂 🙂

Kind regards

Neil

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Bec_Luke — Fri, 25 Apr 2014 09:32:40 GMT

Hi Neil,

Thanks, and no i haven't scored any presents. even though i may not know much about you, i am interested to find a little bit more bout you and get to know you. Thanks for sharing about your brothers birthday being the same day as me. yes I am an ANZAC day and it is a special day, its just a shame that today hasn't felt like that.

But thank you heaps for replying andkeep posting becausei do hope to hear from you soon.

🙂 Bec

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Bec_Luke — Fri, 25 Apr 2014 09:38:01 GMT

Hey Jo,

Thank you both for making me feel a little bit more alive, haha. im glad that I do have people on here who are genuine. but yes it is a shame there can't be that face to face support as you say.

However I do Hope you guys do keep posting as I enjoy the online company and chats, also interest in one another's lifes.

keep posting a i hope to hear from you Jo, and Neil both soon 🙂

hope you guys have had a good day tho 🙂

Bec x.

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geoff — Fri, 25 Apr 2014 14:48:02 GMT

oh dear Bec, I agree with both Jo and Neil and I want to wish you a Happy Birthday, please accept our biggest hugs and a little kiss and then another hug, boy I'm 60 this year so you would be a daughter age to me, and if so then I would treat you to what you would like, ( sorry a limit of $ ).

And yes 'face to face support and loads of presents' would be in order for you.

If you have the strength please go and do what you really like to do, and wouldn't it be lovely to have a party with all of us there.

I'm sorry I am a day late, but you know that we are thinking of you. L Geoff. xx

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Neil_1 — Fri, 25 Apr 2014 23:48:59 GMT

Hi Bec

Be very proud Bec - you sound like a really lovely person, who is really doing it very tough at the present time.

As Jo said, wishing you so many more and indeed you will have many many more and I firmly believe that you have now experienced your worst birthday. It won't always be like this - you'll get to laugh and dance and sing (yes, sing - I can't one bit, but I'm guessing you'd go ok 🙂

Anyway, on the depression thread, I've placed a couple of threads that I've started kind of about how I'm doing, etc - so if you wanted to have a read there, you'd possibly get to know a bit more about me. Although, you may wish to do this at night-time, cause it can really assist you with falling asleep as you read through, you'll find yourself nodding off - great cure for insomnia, my posts. 🙂

Cheers

Neil

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geoff — Sat, 26 Apr 2014 02:52:58 GMT

dear Bec, there are many of us here that will be by your side forever.

It doesn't matter whether we are old or young, which is terrific for you, the support is here for you, and because you are young at heart, and this only means by age, we want to help you.

It's no different than my 2 sons, daughter in law and my little grand daughter, and very soon another one due in May, their support is with me.

I want to and need to help them through any rough patches, because it happens, and we can never avoid this, but with help and advice and support they will come through, but if they don't and have troubles along the way, it doesn't matter, they will eventually see the light, and the determination instilled in me, I will endeavour that this does happen.

I do remember my eldest son who said to me awhile ago, 'that i wouldn't have through this Dad unless it was for you', so the same applies with you, and not only me, but all the other wonderful and caring people who have replied back to you, want to do exactly the same. L Geoff. xx

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Bec_Luke — Sat, 26 Apr 2014 03:42:42 GMT

Thanks heaps Geoff, and everyone else for replying.

and Neil I hope your right when you say that I have had the worst birthday. haha.

I do Appreciate all the lovely responses and reply's. Geoff it's nice to know that you do have family there to support you,

I'm thinking about starting my own blog, as it maybe good to get into.

I'm friends with someone on twitter who is a founder of BB Paul J Grainger. You may know him. I had read some where that he blogs and I ad asked him about i a little bit and he had said that he recommends it, and it has helped him. as myself not knowing much about blogging but am considering it???

what does every body think about blogging?

I do accept all hugs and kisses and support from every body on here.

and i love hearing back from everyone as well as new people as well.

L.Bec x

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Stitch — Sat, 26 Apr 2014 03:48:54 GMT

Oh you poor darlin'. Happy birthday Bec - I'm really sorry you had to spend it alone. I hope you're feeling better after reading all the lovely posts from the other members.

I turned 45 last Monday and spent it on my own too - I know just how you feel. As Geoff said, face to face support and loads of presents would definately be in order for you. No one deserves to be so alone, especially on their birthday.

I've got some news that might cheer you up. I checked out the 'Meet Up' website and there's a new Melbourne depression & anxiety group. I don't know if you're in Melbourne ( I really hope you are) but I've emailed the person who created this new meet up group and I'm hoping to hear back from her soon.

I have to wait for my membership to be approved so I won't be able to attend their first meeting this Saturday, but I will definately go to the next one. I'm not sure if this part of my post will be approved by the moderators, but I hope it will.

Since this site can't facilitate face to face meetings (& I understand why of course) can I suggest that you check out the 'Meet Up' website? Especially the new group "Melbourne depression & anxiety group" There are absolutely loads of different groups all over Australia. Ther's bound to be a group just right for you.

Keep 'breathing' Bec and know that we are all thinking of you.

Rozie

(Stitch)