topic I don't no what to do in Young people

I don't no what to do

Mike992 — Wed, 04 Feb 2015 23:27:07 GMT

I don't no what to do anymore in the past year my parents split , don't speak to my dad anymore, my best friend has cut ties with me, my sister has moved away, and my two closest friends are moving overseas the 2 that I felt most comfortable to say anything to, I no it doesn't seem like too much of a bad thing but it's all happend all together and I can't comprehend any of it I don't no how to move on Im worried that I'm not going to have anyone else close to me again I feel so lost whenever I feel alone I just start to cry and get upset I just don't no what to look forward to now

I don't no what to do

Meegannn — Thu, 05 Feb 2015 02:11:32 GMT

Hey Mike!

I get that overwhelming sadness sometimes when I think about the fact that I actually don't really have anyone to talk to.. apart from my 4 year old child that probably thinks I'm absolutely bonkers!

I guess that's why I came on this site.. to let a bit of it out and talk about it a bit.

Do you have any other friends or family around you? How far away is your sister? Planning a weekend to go and visit her could do you the world of good 🙂

If you still speak with your mum, are you guys close enough to talk to her about these kinds of things?

I'm starting to see a councillor next week just to talk about stuff and I guess get everything off my chest that's been there for years. That could be an idea, just to talk to someone..

Good luck and I hope some of that made sense!

I don't no what to do

lostandconfused — Thu, 05 Feb 2015 03:53:36 GMT

Hey Mike!

Similar to you I have either moved away from my friends and family or they from me. My Parents split when I was younger and I now look at it in this way: If my parents didn't split, they wouldn't be able to be as happy as they are today. As for my friends, I moved for school and lost contact (somewhat) with them and we are not close. I found that in my moving, different interests create new friends, and while they are not the same, you can work to achieve similar ground. Also a councilor is a great point of contact in the meantime until you feel you are able to feel close to people again. The councilor is a person who you can vent to, without fall back and negativity, who is a point of reference that will not spread your private conversations and hopefully you will walk out feeling slightly better.

Hope this helps 🙂

Good Luck