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New here - traumatic night

LK — Sat, 14 Jun 2014 12:23:17 GMT

I'm having one of those nights where I can't see any purpose.

Everyone around me has boyfriends or husbands and kids and I just feel like there is nobody wanting me.

I don't even know what to do, I have 2 friends who haven't even tried to talk to me in weeks.

I always talk to them first so I thought i'd see how long it took for them to talk to me.

We're going on a month.

I don't know what to do and I feel so alone all the time.

I can't stop crying.

Someone give me something

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--Danny-- — Sat, 14 Jun 2014 12:27:21 GMT

Hi LK, if u wanna chat I'm up for one...this is my first time on bb today aswell...

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LK — Sat, 14 Jun 2014 12:31:47 GMT

Thanks

Do you have the same thing? I don't know what to do I just can't get over this

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Distinction — Sat, 14 Jun 2014 12:32:08 GMT

Hey LK, I'm abit in experienced in this pool, and young, but if you wanna talk, I'm here.

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LK — Sat, 14 Jun 2014 12:39:34 GMT

can you just talk to me, tell me something i cam't calm down?

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--Danny-- — Sat, 14 Jun 2014 12:42:40 GMT

Yeh mate, my mate's ditch me all the time...it does get very depressing...sometimes I put up with the stupid things my mate's do to me...don't invite me to places, party's...I never really had friends at school either...

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--Danny-- — Sat, 14 Jun 2014 12:44:12 GMT

What's stressing u out bud?? Fill me in...

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LK — Sat, 14 Jun 2014 12:49:55 GMT

It just feels like all these people have all these people surrounding them and i have noone... its like noone wants to be around me

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--Danny-- — Sat, 14 Jun 2014 12:55:08 GMT

Mate, in my early 20's, I was bed ridden with depression/anxiety...I couldn't get out of bed even...I got through it...it has hit me again recently but it's only early stages...I went to the doctors, & got put on some different medication...my mood has lifted heaps & I haven't drank alcohol since I started the meds...things can be fixed mate:)

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Distinction — Sat, 14 Jun 2014 13:01:22 GMT

Ok. What are you thinking about?

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--Danny-- — Sat, 14 Jun 2014 13:08:44 GMT

LK, there's 2 blokes here trying to help ya buddy....we are here to support each other & push through the problems....

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LK — Sat, 14 Jun 2014 13:12:02 GMT

i can be talking to someone and just feel so lonely its hard to describe

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Distinction — Sat, 14 Jun 2014 13:14:16 GMT

Dude, don't worry. If you wanna talk, talk. Just let it out, and we'll try to support.

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--Danny-- — Sat, 14 Jun 2014 13:23:46 GMT

LK, you can beat these feelings....many, many blokes suffer depression in there early 20's...I've cried myself to sleep heaps of times mate...depression can be beaten...what do u think is the main issue?

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geoff — Sat, 14 Jun 2014 14:35:19 GMT

dear LK, always great to get newcomers on the site, although normally it's not good for their own sakes.

I hope one of you opens up and begins what is troubling you, as it seems as though anxiety is the main problem, but these posts indicate that perhaps you maybe frightened to start your story, because you are hoping that the other person will start.

We need something so that the rest of us can offer help to all of you. Geoff.

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Struggler — Sat, 14 Jun 2014 15:00:22 GMT

Hi LK

You're feeling lonely, empty, sad, rejected, is that right? You feel your friends abandon you? It is Saturday night and you are all alone.

I am in the same boat along with many others here, home alone. You are not alone. We are with you. Make yourself a hot drink and type down how you feel and list it here so we can help you. Don't worry about grammar just type what comes to your mind and post it.

Struggler

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LK — Sun, 15 Jun 2014 10:08:03 GMT

I'm a girl in my twenties with no real friends and no boyfriend.

I can go days without getting a text or call.

Everyone around me has friends or partners..

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--Danny-- — Sun, 15 Jun 2014 10:20:28 GMT

Hey LK, you can chat with me anytime:-):-) what do u wanna chat about?? Pick any topic..

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Girl_Anachronism — Sun, 15 Jun 2014 10:48:53 GMT

Hi LK,

Sorry to hear you are feeling this way. This site is a good place to be in your mental state.

You haven't said much, but I know how hard it can be to open up. Depression does its best to isolate us further. You say you have two friends but haven't spoken to them in a while. Do you think you could speak to them again?

You also say that everyone you know has a support network, or people. I can tell you, I am female, 25 and just got divorced without kids. My family support goes as far as my two cats. I don't have a degree despite years of study and no job or idea of where i am going. I alsosuffer from depression and anxiety. My point is not everyone is on the same time line - some have partners sooner, some later in life. Everyone's life is different, and you will find that yours will progress at its own pace.

Have you had problems like this before? If you have, have you seen a doctor about it?

Hope I haven't scared you with my questions and you can post back soon.