topic can Life Get Better? in Young people

can Life Get Better?

josh22 — Thu, 04 Oct 2018 15:47:13 GMT

Hello i am Just wondering will Life get Better for me?

like most people They have a Job they Have Friends They got a love life they are happy

mean while i cant even get a Job coz my town has less jobs i only had 1 Job in my while life that is gardening at a school

as for Friends had 3 in school Now i have 0 friends i dont know how to make any as i am not that type off person

same for love life got no idea how to find a girl i try dating sites like tinder but we all know they not good so mean while i am lonely 😞

i am trying to Learn to Code as i know this is one job i can try to get

can Life Get Better?

geoff — Thu, 04 Oct 2018 20:06:16 GMT

Hi Josh and welcome.

I'm sorry for how you are feeling and life for you at the moment is pretty dull, however, when you say 'can Life get better', well the answer is 'you get better, stronger' as life plods away every day, your attitude changes to what situation you're in, and you learn from all different experiences.

I didn't really see any friends from school except for 1 person but haven't seen him for over 15 years, he went his own way with his family and don't even know where he lives.

Friends from school get jobs, move away and we don't have any more contact with them, but along the way we meet other people who become our friends, we can't rush that because if we do means we are pushing ourselves onto somebody too quickly.

Dating sites are very dubious because we aren't certain who we are actually talking to and what they really like doing, rather than them telling you something that maybe incorrect.

A girl will come your way I'm sure, sometimes we have to be a little patient because you can't rush it, you will learn a lot along the way become more knowledgeable and cope with all types of situations.

Best wishes.

Geoff.

can Life Get Better?

josh22 — Fri, 05 Oct 2018 06:20:45 GMT

yeah if i only knew how i can meet other people i would

dating online is not good also that will never happen meeting a girl anyway

can Life Get Better?

blondguy — Fri, 05 Oct 2018 11:55:41 GMT

Hello Josh

thankyou for posting here with us. Just to let you know that without new posters (like yourself) the forums wouldnt exist...

I respect Geoff's post above yet I think internet dating can be a huge bonus as there are many girls that are just as lonely as we are. I have been on a couple of internet dating sites and have connected with some really nice girls.

You mentioned that you wanted to learn to Code.....and good on you Josh.....I wish I had your talent

To answer your question....life does get better. I was brought up in a tiny town and 0 friends as well....and I understand you

I really hope you can post back when you wish Josh

my kind thoughts

Paul

can Life Get Better?

josh22 — Tue, 09 Oct 2018 13:07:13 GMT

Thanks Paul

Yes but internet dating sites cost a lot like zoosk you need to pay 35 dollars but what if you dont have the money to pay for those services its like money is all part off our love life

Yes i am learning to code it may take time but it be good in long run

If life does get better when? As i am losing hope 😞

I love my single life with no job also No girlfriend or friends sure dont get me wrong but some day i am gonna have to get a job to save money and start my own business and have a love life and make friends so i dont feel alone

Thanks for listening Paul