https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/young-people/in-love-and-not-knowing-what-to-do/m-p/408717#M18390 <P>I’ve met this beautiful girl at work whom I have feels for. However, it’s continuously mixed feelings that she sends my way. One day I’m the caring friend that she needs the other is a woman that shows feelings towards me. </P> <P>Its hard for me to tell if she actually sees me as a friend or more than that. Yet I’m afraid to confront this issue given that if it’s a rejection, I still have to work with her and could make things awkward for me. </P> <P>I dont like the feeling of giving up on her and moving on. I know she has gone on other dates yet never has told me. I don’t know if she thinks if it’ll hurt me or she’s trying to keep me as her fall back plan. </P> <P> </P> <P>Feeling so stuck not knowing if I should confront her for a direct answer and deal with the outcome and make things awkward at work or just leave it and let time figure things out. </P> <P>But if I leave it and she dates another man, the hurt and jealousy might be unbearable! </P> <P> </P> Tue, 29 Jan 2019 13:17:51 GMT Nawa21 2019-01-29T13:17:51Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/young-people/in-love-and-not-knowing-what-to-do/m-p/408717#M18390 <P>I’ve met this beautiful girl at work whom I have feels for. However, it’s continuously mixed feelings that she sends my way. One day I’m the caring friend that she needs the other is a woman that shows feelings towards me. </P> <P>Its hard for me to tell if she actually sees me as a friend or more than that. Yet I’m afraid to confront this issue given that if it’s a rejection, I still have to work with her and could make things awkward for me. </P> <P>I dont like the feeling of giving up on her and moving on. I know she has gone on other dates yet never has told me. I don’t know if she thinks if it’ll hurt me or she’s trying to keep me as her fall back plan. </P> <P> </P> <P>Feeling so stuck not knowing if I should confront her for a direct answer and deal with the outcome and make things awkward at work or just leave it and let time figure things out. </P> <P>But if I leave it and she dates another man, the hurt and jealousy might be unbearable! </P> <P> </P> Tue, 29 Jan 2019 13:17:51 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/young-people/in-love-and-not-knowing-what-to-do/m-p/408717#M18390 Nawa21 2019-01-29T13:17:51Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/young-people/in-love-and-not-knowing-what-to-do/m-p/408718#M18391 <P>Hi Nawa, welcome to the forums.</P> <P>If you don't ask her then you are always going to wonder 'why didn't I, should have' and all the rest.</P> <P>If you are looking at each other, then one day you might catch her off guard, so her response <G class="gr_ gr_219 gr-alert gr_spell gr_inline_cards gr_run_anim ContextualSpelling ins-del" id="219" data-gr-id="219">maybe</G> different, don't worry about that, go and ask her then your curiously to know will put you at ease.</P> <P><EM><STRONG>Just read your last sentence</STRONG></EM>, you have answered your question and that feeling is not what you want.</P> <P>Please let us know.</P> <P>Geoff.</P> Tue, 29 Jan 2019 18:16:02 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/young-people/in-love-and-not-knowing-what-to-do/m-p/408718#M18391 geoff 2019-01-29T18:16:02Z