https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/young-people/how-to-i-get-out-of-this-dark-hole/m-p/404471#M18109 <P>I'm honestly fed up with myself. I feel like I'm paralysed in a state of sulking, self-loathing and despair. </P> <P>I can't seem to stay postive and insitgate change in my life. I'm worried I'll be like this longer than I should be...</P> <P>I tried moving interstate earlier this year..but I decided to come back home (in Sydney) coz....I freaked out basically. </P> <P>I have no idea what I'm doing with my life. I'm almost two years out of uni (I graduated uni) and I'm still not ready for a full time job. I've just been working casually. </P> <P>I want better for myself but I don't know when or how to make that time come. Does anyone have any tips on how to stop feeling stagnant? </P> <P> </P> Thu, 21 Jun 2018 07:02:44 GMT Karv94 2018-06-21T07:02:44Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/young-people/how-to-i-get-out-of-this-dark-hole/m-p/404471#M18109 <P>I'm honestly fed up with myself. I feel like I'm paralysed in a state of sulking, self-loathing and despair. </P> <P>I can't seem to stay postive and insitgate change in my life. I'm worried I'll be like this longer than I should be...</P> <P>I tried moving interstate earlier this year..but I decided to come back home (in Sydney) coz....I freaked out basically. </P> <P>I have no idea what I'm doing with my life. I'm almost two years out of uni (I graduated uni) and I'm still not ready for a full time job. I've just been working casually. </P> <P>I want better for myself but I don't know when or how to make that time come. Does anyone have any tips on how to stop feeling stagnant? </P> <P> </P> Thu, 21 Jun 2018 07:02:44 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/young-people/how-to-i-get-out-of-this-dark-hole/m-p/404471#M18109 Karv94 2018-06-21T07:02:44Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/young-people/how-to-i-get-out-of-this-dark-hole/m-p/404472#M18110 <P>Hello karv94 <span class="lia-unicode-emoji" title=":rainbow:">🌈</span></P> <P>i am so sorry you feel this way at the moment, do you have any friends that you can socialise with or any hobbies that you like doing. I don’t know if this would help but I always go out for walks in the afternoon just to keep me motivated but well done for working at least. Keep yourself busy that’s what a lot of people have said to me. I also find that listening to music helps a lot I don’t know about you but I love music I also like dancing.</P> <P>i wish you all the best from the crazy hyper girl <span class="lia-unicode-emoji" title=":winking_face_with_tongue:">😜</span>🤪<span class="lia-unicode-emoji" title=":face_savoring_food:">😋</span></P> Thu, 21 Jun 2018 09:49:25 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/young-people/how-to-i-get-out-of-this-dark-hole/m-p/404472#M18110 Crazy_hyper_girl 2018-06-21T09:49:25Z