https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/young-people/can-t-get-over-failed-friendship/m-p/317410#M14402 hi RuneCat, welcome to the forum and no swear words would be permitted so if you do then your comment wouldn't be passed by the moderators and therefore wouldn't be posted.<BR /> When you were on speaking terms did she want to get involved in helping you out of this awkward phase and secondly have you overcome this so that an r/ship could continue with <G class="gr_ gr_10 gr-alert gr_gramm gr_inline_cards gr_run_anim Punctuation multiReplace" id="10" data-gr-id="10">her.</G><BR /> If you know where she lives then send her a card, a bunch of flowers, a box of chocolates to let her know that you want to make contact with her. Geoff. Thu, 21 Dec 2017 16:54:07 GMT geoff 2017-12-21T16:54:07Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/young-people/can-t-get-over-failed-friendship/m-p/317409#M14401 So there was this upperclassmen and I was kind of obsessed with her or overly anxious about becoming friends and I did a bunch of stupid stuff like involving her in my at the time emotional turmoil state even though I didn’t even know her that well and she graduated a couple of months ago but it’s still on and off haunting me and I just feel quite <EXPLETIVE deleted=""> I’m not even sure if our relationship was that bad as my friends say it’s fine and last time I saw her we were on speaking terms and sheseemedto understand that I was just going through an awkward phase but yeah just feel kinda dead on the inside rn</EXPLETIVE> Thu, 21 Dec 2017 16:15:46 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/young-people/can-t-get-over-failed-friendship/m-p/317409#M14401 RuneCat17464 2017-12-21T16:15:46Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/young-people/can-t-get-over-failed-friendship/m-p/317410#M14402 hi RuneCat, welcome to the forum and no swear words would be permitted so if you do then your comment wouldn't be passed by the moderators and therefore wouldn't be posted.<BR /> When you were on speaking terms did she want to get involved in helping you out of this awkward phase and secondly have you overcome this so that an r/ship could continue with <G class="gr_ gr_10 gr-alert gr_gramm gr_inline_cards gr_run_anim Punctuation multiReplace" id="10" data-gr-id="10">her.</G><BR /> If you know where she lives then send her a card, a bunch of flowers, a box of chocolates to let her know that you want to make contact with her. Geoff. Thu, 21 Dec 2017 16:54:07 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/young-people/can-t-get-over-failed-friendship/m-p/317410#M14402 geoff 2017-12-21T16:54:07Z