https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/young-people/jealousy-how-its-wrecking-my-life/m-p/295198#M13333 <P>Hi im mizztwisted.</P> <P>ok to start im a 24yr old woman I have a great boyfriend but our year started out shitty.</P> <P>My boyfriends mother died and other shit things happened</P> <P>Im off track my boyfriends sisters both got pregnant 1MONTH APPART. I want kids as ive been in this relationship nearly 5yrs three of those engaged to him. </P> <P>Jealousy made me think about hurting them then I started slamming butter knives in my hand (not breaking the skin mostly causing bruises). My boyfriend is sick of me complaining about how much I want kids and how jealous I am of his older sisters</P> <P>This thread is to allow me to ask for help or ways to stop the negative thoughts that circle me day after day</P> Thu, 05 Oct 2017 04:44:34 GMT Mizztwisted 2017-10-05T04:44:34Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/young-people/jealousy-how-its-wrecking-my-life/m-p/295198#M13333 <P>Hi im mizztwisted.</P> <P>ok to start im a 24yr old woman I have a great boyfriend but our year started out shitty.</P> <P>My boyfriends mother died and other shit things happened</P> <P>Im off track my boyfriends sisters both got pregnant 1MONTH APPART. I want kids as ive been in this relationship nearly 5yrs three of those engaged to him. </P> <P>Jealousy made me think about hurting them then I started slamming butter knives in my hand (not breaking the skin mostly causing bruises). My boyfriend is sick of me complaining about how much I want kids and how jealous I am of his older sisters</P> <P>This thread is to allow me to ask for help or ways to stop the negative thoughts that circle me day after day</P> Thu, 05 Oct 2017 04:44:34 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/young-people/jealousy-how-its-wrecking-my-life/m-p/295198#M13333 Mizztwisted 2017-10-05T04:44:34Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/young-people/jealousy-how-its-wrecking-my-life/m-p/295199#M13334 <P>Hi MizzT, welcome to the forums.</P> <P>Inclination towards motherhood is a natural instinct. So I understand it must be difficult for you if your sisters in law are satisfying that need while yours remains unfulfilled.</P> <P>Do you mind telling us what the problem is ? Do you find it difficult to conceive or is your partner not ready to be a father ? Is fear of commitment an issue for him ? Sorry about the questions but knowing a little more about the situation would help us point you in the right direction and offer adequate support.</P> <P>It sounds like your thoughts have become a bit too obsessive for comfort. For both of you. Have you thought of counseling to help you manage this difficult situation ? Would your partner agree to a joint session ? An in depth talk with a neutral professional can make a bit difference. It also avoids emotional outbursts that easily end 1 on 1 conversations into confrontation.</P> <P>This is obviously causing you both a lot of distress. Well done for finding the courage to reach out for help, a wise and brave decision.</P> <P>Good to have you on board.</P> <P> </P> Thu, 05 Oct 2017 07:37:26 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/young-people/jealousy-how-its-wrecking-my-life/m-p/295199#M13334 Starwolf 2017-10-05T07:37:26Z