topic No Hope Left in Young people

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Renayelisaa — Wed, 06 Sep 2017 02:59:53 GMT

I was sexually assaulted 4 weeks ago by my "Friend" I knew his terrible background (went to juvie, does drugs) and I went to his house when it happened it feels like my fault the whole thing happened. I skipped school and went to his house to watch movies and I was sexually assaulted. My parents later that day found out everything by the police and I went to the hospital on the night it happened.

its been 4 weeks and I feel like nothing I feel depressed I don't know what to do guys..

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Pysis — Wed, 06 Sep 2017 03:05:02 GMT

Hi Lisa (can I call you that?)

im so sorry that this happend to you but it's not your fault you did not ask for this to happen.

you have been through major trauma so you are going to take time to feel ok again. I think you should probably see your go and ask to see a phycologist they can help you work through this and feel better. But in the meantime you can always talk on here ok. your not alone and you don't have to go through this alone.

Nath

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Renayelisaa — Wed, 06 Sep 2017 03:15:08 GMT

Yes Thankyou darl, I'm so so tired of everything and it's stressing me out a lot, I haven't been out ever since it happened. I'm in year 12 as well so it just adds to the stress for me.

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Pysis — Wed, 06 Sep 2017 03:24:36 GMT

Hi Lisa

your welcome.

hang in there it is only early days you will get better. Are you seeing a phycologist or anyone to get some help with it?

Do you mean you haven't left the house?

im only 18 myself so I do understand the stress of study but honestly the most important thing for you right now is to get better and work your way through this. It's not something that is easy to get over becuase it is truly a horible thing that has happend to you, it's not your fault and never will be your fault.

Im here to talk if you need me and I'll let a few other people know if that's ok?

You don't have to say anything you don't want to and you don't ever have to be embarrassed ok. Your safe here.

thinking of you

nath

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Renayelisaa — Wed, 06 Sep 2017 03:59:39 GMT

Yes I just rang up traxisde as it's for teenagers and young adults.

I just feel feel so exhausted and I have no motivation for anything really.

and yeah that's fine 🙂

thankyou very much, is there any way we can private chat?

Thanks.

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Pysis — Wed, 06 Sep 2017 04:18:27 GMT

Hi lisa

i can understand the lack of motivation and tiredness I have depression myself mainly I think becuase my dad has been very abusive over the years.

Unfortunately I don't think there is any way for us to chat privately but if you want I can just leave telling the others bout it so there are less people looking at your thread it's up to you if I do tell the others you will get a lot more people helping you but also that means more people are seeing stuff you put up. Can I ask why it is you want to talk to me privately? Is it just becuase your not comfortable with lots of people knowing what's going on? I want you to know you can say anything on here and no one is going to judge you but it's up to you how much you want to say.

thinking of you

nath

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Pysis — Wed, 06 Sep 2017 08:57:57 GMT

Hi Lisa hows the rest of your day been?

im here if you need to talk

nath

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Pysis — Thu, 07 Sep 2017 13:15:56 GMT

Hi Lisa

hows your day been.hope your ok.

thinking of you

Nath

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Pysis — Mon, 11 Sep 2017 04:39:20 GMT

Hi Lisa

i hope your doing ok, remember I'm always here if you need to talk.

Nath

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startingnew — Mon, 11 Sep 2017 10:28:35 GMT

hello and welcome to the forums

there is no private chat functions here

i am a survivor of sexual abuse as well. let me tell you what you feel is a normal reaction to an abnormal situation.

please let me know if you dont understand what that means.

please feel free to ask any questions about the way you feel or about the assault ok.

jsut so you know im only 20 myself and was abused for months on end without really even realising it as to me it was a 'normal' situation until i realised it wasnt.

so please talk away, there is no judgement here.

and you are a survivor as well. you have lived through it and you can recover. while its not going to be easy there is hope that things will get better

again happy to chat about anything

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sunbear74 — Mon, 11 Sep 2017 11:24:22 GMT

Hi, I too was sexually assaulted by a "friend" at a house party- I kept it a secret except for a few friends who just brushed it off, I promise it gets better, talking to people helps, but if you don't want to do that (i didn't!) there are heaps of other steps you can take to overcoming a traumatic event like this!

Hope you're doing ok