https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/supporting-family-and-friends/wife-has-bipolar-2-i-don-t-know-why-she-s-always-tearing-me-down/m-p/352644#M11351 <P>?</P> <P>im just so confused, one minute we're battling together to get ahead. We've just got on top of everything and bamb It's just like a train wreck. I'm just in shock and have been for about 4 months now. People say it will get better but it keeps getting worse. I'm not been given fair and equal access to my 6 year old daughter and when I do occasionally it's a weekend and she goes out partying and she's on heavy medications.</P> <P> It just doesn't seem morally right. I'm working hard and getting limited visitation. There are no court orders in place yet so it should be fair but it's not. I can see my daughter being taken away from me.???</P> Fri, 30 Jun 2017 08:46:40 GMT RidgeyDidge___ 2017-06-30T08:46:40Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/supporting-family-and-friends/wife-has-bipolar-2-i-don-t-know-why-she-s-always-tearing-me-down/m-p/352644#M11351 <P>?</P> <P>im just so confused, one minute we're battling together to get ahead. We've just got on top of everything and bamb It's just like a train wreck. I'm just in shock and have been for about 4 months now. People say it will get better but it keeps getting worse. I'm not been given fair and equal access to my 6 year old daughter and when I do occasionally it's a weekend and she goes out partying and she's on heavy medications.</P> <P> It just doesn't seem morally right. I'm working hard and getting limited visitation. There are no court orders in place yet so it should be fair but it's not. I can see my daughter being taken away from me.???</P> Fri, 30 Jun 2017 08:46:40 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/supporting-family-and-friends/wife-has-bipolar-2-i-don-t-know-why-she-s-always-tearing-me-down/m-p/352644#M11351 RidgeyDidge___ 2017-06-30T08:46:40Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/supporting-family-and-friends/wife-has-bipolar-2-i-don-t-know-why-she-s-always-tearing-me-down/m-p/352645#M11352 <P>Hi RD, welcome </P> <P>Ive been there.</P> <P>Best advice I can give you is to see a family court lawyer and seek a ruling to see your daughter regularly.</P> <P>Yes it tears your heart out. But, my split was 21 years ago. I walked my daughter down the aisle 3 weeks ago.</P> <P>Be persistent, be calm, protect yourself and your daughters relationship be getting it legal.</P> <P>Best of luck.</P> <P>Tony WK </P> Fri, 30 Jun 2017 12:21:25 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/supporting-family-and-friends/wife-has-bipolar-2-i-don-t-know-why-she-s-always-tearing-me-down/m-p/352645#M11352 white knight 2017-06-30T12:21:25Z