https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/separation/m-p/615657#M55949 <P>Friends? Family? Good start being here...I know people feel unformattable about seeing counsellors....may help?</P><P>I cannot give you advice. However, try to focus on yourself and find some joy. (OK, that may be advice sorry!)&nbsp; This hard time will end.</P><P>You are not alone,</P><P>Sending Love,</P><P>Nath</P> Thu, 20 Nov 2025 12:12:18 GMT Nath666 2025-11-20T12:12:18Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/separation/m-p/615643#M55948 <P><STRONG>separation after 25 years with a coercive violent man. &nbsp;He did everything and now am lost dealing with my life. &nbsp;I had to move and struggling finding a job. &nbsp;He gets to keep his life and job and am so angry. Just don’t know how to get through</STRONG></P> Thu, 20 Nov 2025 08:43:31 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/separation/m-p/615643#M55948 Guest_74433363 2025-11-20T08:43:31Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/separation/m-p/615657#M55949 <P>Friends? Family? Good start being here...I know people feel unformattable about seeing counsellors....may help?</P><P>I cannot give you advice. However, try to focus on yourself and find some joy. (OK, that may be advice sorry!)&nbsp; This hard time will end.</P><P>You are not alone,</P><P>Sending Love,</P><P>Nath</P> Thu, 20 Nov 2025 12:12:18 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/separation/m-p/615657#M55949 Nath666 2025-11-20T12:12:18Z