Caught in the middle

Chris16 — Fri, 27 Jun 2025 23:06:03 GMT

My sister had a relationship with a man many decades ago, there is a child involved. They both went their separate ways and had no contact at all. The man did not see the child or give financial support. Some years ago she tried to contact him, only for his wife to explain that he had passed away and that he was trying to locate her. The wife did not explain why and my sister ended the conversation.

As my sister was very ill in hospital, she asked me to contact her ex partners wife and ask why this man was trying to contact. I have written to her and no response, I have texted her no response. I now feel if I ring her, I will be accused of stalking. Do I just accept that she does not want to discuss it. How do I proceed now? I feel caught in the middle and it is very trying.

Re: Caught in the middle

white knight — Sat, 28 Jun 2025 04:07:40 GMT

Hi, welcome

My question is- how is your sisters health now? Is she able to take up those tasks herself?. Is the wife of the man still living there? Is her phone number the same? Did he really pass away?

This is one reason private investigators are contracted to carry out these tasks. So that's my recommendation.

I hope you succeed.

TonyWK

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