https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/fear-of-being-cheated-on/m-p/581685#M51724 <P>Hi guys,</P><P>&nbsp;</P><P>Im new here and i really just wanted to see what other people think i should do and how i could quiet my racing mind. I know I shouldn’t have but i went on my boyfriends phone last night because i always have had this ill feeling that he could be talking to other guys or hooking up with other guys. I went on his phone and went on X (formerly Twitter) and saw he looks at porn etc. which i dont care about because i do too but then i went to his dm’s and saw he was messaging different guys. I wanted to look at more but i just got really sick and had to stop looking at his messages but one that stood out was he said “you looking” i dont know what to say to him about it i brought it up to him saying are you talking to any guys or are you hooking up with other guys and he kept saying no but i dont know how to bring up that i looked through his phone and saw these messages. <span class="lia-unicode-emoji" title=":disappointed_face:">😞</span></P> Tue, 02 Jan 2024 06:48:58 GMT Jake5546 2024-01-02T06:48:58Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/fear-of-being-cheated-on/m-p/581685#M51724 <P>Hi guys,</P><P>&nbsp;</P><P>Im new here and i really just wanted to see what other people think i should do and how i could quiet my racing mind. I know I shouldn’t have but i went on my boyfriends phone last night because i always have had this ill feeling that he could be talking to other guys or hooking up with other guys. I went on his phone and went on X (formerly Twitter) and saw he looks at porn etc. which i dont care about because i do too but then i went to his dm’s and saw he was messaging different guys. I wanted to look at more but i just got really sick and had to stop looking at his messages but one that stood out was he said “you looking” i dont know what to say to him about it i brought it up to him saying are you talking to any guys or are you hooking up with other guys and he kept saying no but i dont know how to bring up that i looked through his phone and saw these messages. <span class="lia-unicode-emoji" title=":disappointed_face:">😞</span></P> Tue, 02 Jan 2024 06:48:58 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/fear-of-being-cheated-on/m-p/581685#M51724 Jake5546 2024-01-02T06:48:58Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/fear-of-being-cheated-on/m-p/581696#M51728 <P><EM>jake5546</EM></P><P><EM>Looking st someone’s &nbsp;phone and then finding out something you wished you hadn’t is difficult as you are finding out.</EM></P><P><EM>If you say something to him you risk him being angry at you invading his privacy. Even if he was looking on line would he tell you. It is a hard decision and yo may need to be prepared not like his answer.&nbsp;<BR /><BR /></EM></P> Tue, 02 Jan 2024 09:19:50 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/fear-of-being-cheated-on/m-p/581696#M51728 quirkywords 2024-01-02T09:19:50Z