https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/fighting-the-narcissist-in-the-magistrate-court-need-an/m-p/580814#M51598 <P>I am hoping to find a lawyer / barrister to represent me in court that understands a narcsissist mind games. I have had 2 lawyers, both expecting me to plead guity for breach an IVO just to make a quick dollar. I cant plead guilty for acts I cannot remember doing.&nbsp; &nbsp;We were in a relationship for 3 years, it got quite abusive. I reported him many times to the police, even afte showing bruising all over my body police did nothing.&nbsp; He reports a lie to the police, the police jump to help me.&nbsp; My psychologist says because I had attack after attack by the man, his current partner and police, I had a traumatic episode as I have no memory of the events for 48 hours.&nbsp; I went into fight mode. I did not hurt anybody but I breached an IVO.&nbsp; I believe he manipulated the police with false stories.&nbsp; I told another woman who was also sleeping with this man is a conman be careful.&nbsp; That was it, the attacks against me started.&nbsp; I am in the process of collecting all the evidence and getting a psychologist forensic report.&nbsp; Now I need a barrister to help me at the hearing.&nbsp; I have been fighting this battle for 12 months.&nbsp; I cant have his name next to my name on record as the abuse will continue.&nbsp; I need all ties with him broken.&nbsp; My life has been turned upside down.&nbsp;&nbsp;</P> Thu, 21 Dec 2023 21:19:33 GMT Elizabeth666 2023-12-21T21:19:33Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/fighting-the-narcissist-in-the-magistrate-court-need-an/m-p/580814#M51598 <P>I am hoping to find a lawyer / barrister to represent me in court that understands a narcsissist mind games. I have had 2 lawyers, both expecting me to plead guity for breach an IVO just to make a quick dollar. I cant plead guilty for acts I cannot remember doing.&nbsp; &nbsp;We were in a relationship for 3 years, it got quite abusive. I reported him many times to the police, even afte showing bruising all over my body police did nothing.&nbsp; He reports a lie to the police, the police jump to help me.&nbsp; My psychologist says because I had attack after attack by the man, his current partner and police, I had a traumatic episode as I have no memory of the events for 48 hours.&nbsp; I went into fight mode. I did not hurt anybody but I breached an IVO.&nbsp; I believe he manipulated the police with false stories.&nbsp; I told another woman who was also sleeping with this man is a conman be careful.&nbsp; That was it, the attacks against me started.&nbsp; I am in the process of collecting all the evidence and getting a psychologist forensic report.&nbsp; Now I need a barrister to help me at the hearing.&nbsp; I have been fighting this battle for 12 months.&nbsp; I cant have his name next to my name on record as the abuse will continue.&nbsp; I need all ties with him broken.&nbsp; My life has been turned upside down.&nbsp;&nbsp;</P> Thu, 21 Dec 2023 21:19:33 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/fighting-the-narcissist-in-the-magistrate-court-need-an/m-p/580814#M51598 Elizabeth666 2023-12-21T21:19:33Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/fighting-the-narcissist-in-the-magistrate-court-need-an/m-p/580843#M51607 <P>Hi, Elizabeth</P><P>&nbsp;</P><P>Unfortunately we cant refer you to any legal people nor do we delve into the court process.</P><P>&nbsp;</P><P>For those reasons I cant assist you. I hope you understand</P><P>&nbsp;</P><P>TonyWK</P> Fri, 22 Dec 2023 07:09:14 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/fighting-the-narcissist-in-the-magistrate-court-need-an/m-p/580843#M51607 white knight 2023-12-22T07:09:14Z