https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/struggling-with-being-a-long-distance-from-husband-feel-lost-sad/m-p/574725#M50018 <P>Hi there,</P><P>&nbsp;</P><P>I am sorry to hear you are having such a hard time, it sounds really taxing. I don't have any advice to give you, but I just wanted you to know that you have been heard and I am sending positive thoughts, encouragement and blessings your way. (I too lived in the UK with my ex-boyfriend for over 5 years and it broke up because essentially he couldn't commit to coming back to Australia to settle down, even after saying numerous times that it was what he wanted)... Anyway, I hope you are able to sort things out between you and that you are able to feel much better soon xo</P> Sun, 17 Sep 2023 12:09:03 GMT Maisy Nina 2023-09-17T12:09:03Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/struggling-with-being-a-long-distance-from-husband-feel-lost-sad/m-p/574624#M50007 <P>I am Australian, My husband and I live in the UK but after an issue with my visa when we we’re returning from holiday I wasn’t able to return home with him and had to come to Australia to stay with family to wait for the visa to be sorted.</P><P>&nbsp;</P><P><BR />I have now been here in Australia for 8 months while he is there taking care of the house and continuing working.&nbsp;<BR /><BR /></P><P>I have been struggling lot the past few months and begging him to visit but their is always a reason he won’t.</P><P>&nbsp;</P><P>Last weekend I found out he asked a women to go for a night out with him, she is an old friend from his past they were close 10 years ago. I have never met her I didn’t even know they kept in contact he never mentions her never introduced us nothing.</P><P>&nbsp;</P><P>This was a huge shock because</P><P>1 I don’t know this woman&nbsp;</P><P>2 I didn’t know they were in contact&nbsp;</P><P>3 I just don’t agree with a married man or woman having a one on one meet up with the opposite gender.</P><P>&nbsp;</P><P>We have been arguing about it all week. He said he didn’t tell me because he knew I’d get upset so to me this makes it worse, he knew I wouldn’t be happy about it and choose to do it anyway and to keep it from me. I’m just so lost my mind is going crazy I am depressed and anxious. I’m just really struggling.</P> Sat, 16 Sep 2023 12:15:26 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/struggling-with-being-a-long-distance-from-husband-feel-lost-sad/m-p/574624#M50007 Florence88 2023-09-16T12:15:26Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/struggling-with-being-a-long-distance-from-husband-feel-lost-sad/m-p/574725#M50018 <P>Hi there,</P><P>&nbsp;</P><P>I am sorry to hear you are having such a hard time, it sounds really taxing. I don't have any advice to give you, but I just wanted you to know that you have been heard and I am sending positive thoughts, encouragement and blessings your way. (I too lived in the UK with my ex-boyfriend for over 5 years and it broke up because essentially he couldn't commit to coming back to Australia to settle down, even after saying numerous times that it was what he wanted)... Anyway, I hope you are able to sort things out between you and that you are able to feel much better soon xo</P> Sun, 17 Sep 2023 12:09:03 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/struggling-with-being-a-long-distance-from-husband-feel-lost-sad/m-p/574725#M50018 Maisy Nina 2023-09-17T12:09:03Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/struggling-with-being-a-long-distance-from-husband-feel-lost-sad/m-p/574728#M50019 <P>Thank you so much!</P> Sun, 17 Sep 2023 12:12:05 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/struggling-with-being-a-long-distance-from-husband-feel-lost-sad/m-p/574728#M50019 Florence88 2023-09-17T12:12:05Z