topic Re: Messed up in Relationship and family issues

Messed up

unkown87 — Fri, 10 Mar 2023 20:27:49 GMT

Needing advise and help in anyway possible. I’m married and I have been seeing this guy for 2yrs he is also married. In a nutshell he can’t have sex with me cause of guilt but has done everything else sexually with me. He wants to leave his wife as he said he is not in love with her anymore. I’m feeling really rejected and not good enough at this point and I feel as though he takes what we have for granted. I dunno what to do anymore as I’m madley in love with him and have never felt this way ever about anyone. This is my situation I a nutshell but any Advise on that so far will be helpful

Re: Messed up

geoff — Fri, 10 Mar 2023 20:48:33 GMT

Hello, can I ask if there are any children involved in your marriage or with his.

Geoff.

Life Member.

Re: Messed up

unkown87 — Tue, 06 Jun 2023 00:55:15 GMT

Yes both of us have children. Why is that?

Re: Messed up

AmaraA — Fri, 18 Oct 2024 04:19:07 GMT

Hey there! 😊

It seems like you’re navigating a complex emotional landscape, and I appreciate you reaching out for advice. Relationships can be like intricate puzzles, right? Let’s break it down.

First off, how are you feeling about your current husband? Marriage can be both beautiful and challenging, and it’s okay to have mixed emotions. If you could momentarily set aside the other man in your life (I know, easier said than done!), what’s your gut telling you about your marriage? Any specific feelings or doubts?

Remember, you don’t have to spill all the details—I respect your boundaries. But sharing a little more about your experience can help me understand better. Once we’ve got that, we can dive into discussing the other man you’re in love with. And hey, I’m all about empathy—I’ll slip into those metaphorical shoes to help you find clarity! 🌟

Looking forward to hearing more from you, Amara