https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/moving-out/m-p/564962#M48915 <P>Hi, welcome&nbsp;</P><P>&nbsp;</P><P>I think you justify going a step further. I'd say to him (note, they are in questionformat so he will feel compelled to answer)-</P><P>&nbsp;</P><UL><LI>Do you want our relationship to detiorate to the point whereby we'll no longer be in contact?</LI><LI>I love you but we are going downhill, is that your intention?</LI><LI>I think 14 days is long enough for you to find alternative accommodation or do you think 30 days? (That gives him a choice)</LI><LI>By not seeking to move out you're violating me, do you understand that?</LI><LI>It's been 7 days since our last discussion, how many places have you applied for?</LI></UL><P>If things go really downhill an AVO is the only avenue to force him out. Remember,&nbsp; you have rights, anyone removing your rights is toxic imo because he isn't respecting you.</P><P>&nbsp;</P><P>TonyWK&nbsp;</P> Sat, 06 May 2023 00:56:42 GMT white knight 2023-05-06T00:56:42Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/moving-out/m-p/564918#M48911 <P>I want my brother to move out of my house. He is very difficult to live with. He complains all the time about my appearance, my diet, even what work I do. I have told him many times that if he is not happy with me that he should move out. I am not sure what else I can do. He is not violent towards me but he starts lots of arguments.&nbsp;</P> Fri, 05 May 2023 11:47:12 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/moving-out/m-p/564918#M48911 Clara1 2023-05-05T11:47:12Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/moving-out/m-p/564962#M48915 <P>Hi, welcome&nbsp;</P><P>&nbsp;</P><P>I think you justify going a step further. I'd say to him (note, they are in questionformat so he will feel compelled to answer)-</P><P>&nbsp;</P><UL><LI>Do you want our relationship to detiorate to the point whereby we'll no longer be in contact?</LI><LI>I love you but we are going downhill, is that your intention?</LI><LI>I think 14 days is long enough for you to find alternative accommodation or do you think 30 days? (That gives him a choice)</LI><LI>By not seeking to move out you're violating me, do you understand that?</LI><LI>It's been 7 days since our last discussion, how many places have you applied for?</LI></UL><P>If things go really downhill an AVO is the only avenue to force him out. Remember,&nbsp; you have rights, anyone removing your rights is toxic imo because he isn't respecting you.</P><P>&nbsp;</P><P>TonyWK&nbsp;</P> Sat, 06 May 2023 00:56:42 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/moving-out/m-p/564962#M48915 white knight 2023-05-06T00:56:42Z