https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/my-ex-is-now-back-with-his-ex-before-me-i-feel-like-i-was-a/m-p/562211#M48602 <P>Hello there,&nbsp;</P><P>&nbsp;</P><P>After leaving my longterm relationship of one year, I have just found out that my ex partner is getting back together with his ex (before me).</P><P>&nbsp;</P><P>I feel really hurt that after a month he can just move on like that and back with his ex, before me.&nbsp;<BR /><BR /></P><P>I am feeling so lonely and sad. Although, I’m lonely.. I am appreciative that I had did not stay with him because he would guilt trip me and say things like “…I will never love another” and “If you leave me I will be forever alone and you are my last hope.”</P><P>&nbsp;</P><P>Because he is going back with his ex it has made me feel that the WHOLE time he had feelings for her… I felt like a rebound. It has made me feel terrible about my self esteem.&nbsp;</P> Thu, 30 Mar 2023 07:22:16 GMT PsychedelicFur 2023-03-30T07:22:16Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/my-ex-is-now-back-with-his-ex-before-me-i-feel-like-i-was-a/m-p/562211#M48602 <P>Hello there,&nbsp;</P><P>&nbsp;</P><P>After leaving my longterm relationship of one year, I have just found out that my ex partner is getting back together with his ex (before me).</P><P>&nbsp;</P><P>I feel really hurt that after a month he can just move on like that and back with his ex, before me.&nbsp;<BR /><BR /></P><P>I am feeling so lonely and sad. Although, I’m lonely.. I am appreciative that I had did not stay with him because he would guilt trip me and say things like “…I will never love another” and “If you leave me I will be forever alone and you are my last hope.”</P><P>&nbsp;</P><P>Because he is going back with his ex it has made me feel that the WHOLE time he had feelings for her… I felt like a rebound. It has made me feel terrible about my self esteem.&nbsp;</P> Thu, 30 Mar 2023 07:22:16 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/my-ex-is-now-back-with-his-ex-before-me-i-feel-like-i-was-a/m-p/562211#M48602 PsychedelicFur 2023-03-30T07:22:16Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/my-ex-is-now-back-with-his-ex-before-me-i-feel-like-i-was-a/m-p/562226#M48605 <P>Psychedelic fur</P><P>This is about him not you. He derived you and maybe himself. You are a kind honest caring person who deserve high self esteem. It is &nbsp;awful when the person you loved appears to have maybe still been in love with his ex.</P><P>&nbsp;</P> Thu, 30 Mar 2023 10:11:49 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/my-ex-is-now-back-with-his-ex-before-me-i-feel-like-i-was-a/m-p/562226#M48605 quirkywords 2023-03-30T10:11:49Z