https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/ignoring-his-boys/m-p/501500#M40110 Hi guys my ex pretty much has nothing to do with our boys.He has a older son from his first marriage who has 4 kids now and he has spent the last three Christmas with him in a other state.what hurts the most is our son has just been diagnosed with autism spectrum disorder 3 months ago and he hasn't ask once what's happening or how he is absolutely nothing.Our son is heartbroken he doesn't say it but I know.And my ex has sent me a email saying the most horrible things about the boys that I thought a father would never say it's just so cruel.Its like a pattern he did this to his Older son at basically the same age.feeling sad angry heartbroken Mon, 09 Dec 2019 10:00:45 GMT Holi 2019-12-09T10:00:45Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/ignoring-his-boys/m-p/501500#M40110 Hi guys my ex pretty much has nothing to do with our boys.He has a older son from his first marriage who has 4 kids now and he has spent the last three Christmas with him in a other state.what hurts the most is our son has just been diagnosed with autism spectrum disorder 3 months ago and he hasn't ask once what's happening or how he is absolutely nothing.Our son is heartbroken he doesn't say it but I know.And my ex has sent me a email saying the most horrible things about the boys that I thought a father would never say it's just so cruel.Its like a pattern he did this to his Older son at basically the same age.feeling sad angry heartbroken Mon, 09 Dec 2019 10:00:45 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/ignoring-his-boys/m-p/501500#M40110 Holi 2019-12-09T10:00:45Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/ignoring-his-boys/m-p/501501#M40111 I'm so sorry this is happening to you and your kids . Sometimes people can be so unfair . Try your best to focus on your kids and yourself . It's not easy but you got this and at the end of the day your boys clearly have a loving mumma who will help them through this . <BR /> <BR />X Mon, 09 Dec 2019 10:57:41 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/ignoring-his-boys/m-p/501501#M40111 Larlar 2019-12-09T10:57:41Z