https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/who-is-feeling-the-emotional-burden-of-family-conflict/m-p/498444#M39727 <P>Hello Hu</P> <P>welcome to the forum and well done for starting your own thread.</P> <P> feel many reading your question would answer yes.</P> <P>it is an awful feeling you are not understood by anyone.</P> <P>As Pepper says if you are up to you it let us know a little more about yourself.</P> <P>this is a supportive place.You are not alone.</P> Tue, 21 Apr 2020 12:27:50 GMT quirkywords 2020-04-21T12:27:50Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/who-is-feeling-the-emotional-burden-of-family-conflict/m-p/498442#M39725 do you feel that nobody understands you or nobody is on your side? Tue, 21 Apr 2020 06:30:44 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/who-is-feeling-the-emotional-burden-of-family-conflict/m-p/498442#M39725 Hu 2020-04-21T06:30:44Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/who-is-feeling-the-emotional-burden-of-family-conflict/m-p/498443#M39726 <P>Hi Hu,</P> <P>You sound as though you’re feeling very lonely &amp; unheard. I don’t know what you’re struggling with exactly but I can tell it’s weighing on you...I feel the hurt...very much so...</P> <P>I know it’s not the same, but in my own way, I also feel very misunderstood too at times. It’s hard...</P> <P>If you’re feeling up to it (no pressure), it would be lovely to hear more of your story...</P> <P>Kindness &amp; care,</P> <P>Pepper</P> Tue, 21 Apr 2020 08:02:28 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/who-is-feeling-the-emotional-burden-of-family-conflict/m-p/498443#M39726 Peppermintbach 2020-04-21T08:02:28Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/who-is-feeling-the-emotional-burden-of-family-conflict/m-p/498444#M39727 <P>Hello Hu</P> <P>welcome to the forum and well done for starting your own thread.</P> <P> feel many reading your question would answer yes.</P> <P>it is an awful feeling you are not understood by anyone.</P> <P>As Pepper says if you are up to you it let us know a little more about yourself.</P> <P>this is a supportive place.You are not alone.</P> Tue, 21 Apr 2020 12:27:50 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/who-is-feeling-the-emotional-burden-of-family-conflict/m-p/498444#M39727 quirkywords 2020-04-21T12:27:50Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/who-is-feeling-the-emotional-burden-of-family-conflict/m-p/498445#M39728 I have issues staying on task, I also have parrallels with this issue in separating my story from others propogation. I have an uncommon family dynamic and often guilt and unidentified responsibility issues. I have needed mental health support over the past several years and I feel as though simultaniously my parents are both urging me to get on with my life whilst also smothering me in a patronising fashion. I have very good information coping methods but again I find it hard to separate my imaginary response to the shit* friends have put on me, and as though I have an instant spotlight upon any whim of what could be percieved as an unfriendly sign. For example when writing *shit I get a frustrating overwhelming sense of litigation. This has gone on for so long that I just pencil it down to grey matter deterioration. Wed, 22 Apr 2020 00:48:52 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/who-is-feeling-the-emotional-burden-of-family-conflict/m-p/498445#M39728 Person_male 2020-04-22T00:48:52Z