https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/partner-trusting-issues/m-p/434573#M32883 <P>Hi Loz</P> <P>Relationships can be tricky. Everything seems fine one day and the next day grey clouds appear. Quite normal.</P> <P>Expressing feelings can also be difficult until you just do it. Then you sometimes wonder why you hesitated.</P> <P>You seem like a clear headed person based on the little information you have provided. While anxiety can certainly make us "over think" and "create doubts", I would be cautious in giving it too much influence on your feelings.</P> <P>Can I ask what examples in her behaviour makes you doubt her trust worthiness?</P> Tue, 24 Mar 2020 06:49:16 GMT Betternow 2020-03-24T06:49:16Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/partner-trusting-issues/m-p/434572#M32882 <P>Hi, I’m new to this but just thought I would give it a go</P> <P><SPAN style="font-size: inherit; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%;"></SPAN><SPAN style="font-size: inherit; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%;">I have been with my partner for 2 years...things were great at first but I do have trouble expressing my feelings to her...</SPAN></P> <P><SPAN style="font-size: inherit; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%;">I do overthink a lot and create scenarios in my mind that then leads to me not trusting her or thinking she is not telling me the truth about some things </SPAN></P> <P><SPAN style="font-size: inherit; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%;">I do suffer with anxiety and depression also so that does play a part in my over thinking</SPAN></P> <P><SPAN style="font-size: inherit; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%;">just wondering if anyone has been like this and what have they done to over come this </SPAN></P> <P> </P> Tue, 24 Mar 2020 00:51:16 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/partner-trusting-issues/m-p/434572#M32882 Loz2192 2020-03-24T00:51:16Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/partner-trusting-issues/m-p/434573#M32883 <P>Hi Loz</P> <P>Relationships can be tricky. Everything seems fine one day and the next day grey clouds appear. Quite normal.</P> <P>Expressing feelings can also be difficult until you just do it. Then you sometimes wonder why you hesitated.</P> <P>You seem like a clear headed person based on the little information you have provided. While anxiety can certainly make us "over think" and "create doubts", I would be cautious in giving it too much influence on your feelings.</P> <P>Can I ask what examples in her behaviour makes you doubt her trust worthiness?</P> Tue, 24 Mar 2020 06:49:16 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/partner-trusting-issues/m-p/434573#M32883 Betternow 2020-03-24T06:49:16Z