https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/my-husband-has-walked-out/m-p/398387#M28754 <P>A34</P> <P>You have been going through a lot of pain and coping with a difficult situation,</P> <P>i want to welcome you to the forum and thank you for taking the first step in sharing your story. This is a caring and supportive place. </P> <P>Working full time with 3 children is 2 full time jobs. On top of that you have your husband’s disorders, so you may feel overwhelmed at times,</P> <P>Have you thought of going to a counsellor together and talking about your situation..</P> <P>You are doing a great job as a mum. It is understandable you would feel sad and angry,</P> <P>Do you have anyone you can talk to.?</P> <P>beyond blue has a support line you can call 1300 22 4636 THat offers support advice action.</P> <P>Sometimes talking to a trained professional can help you sort out your thoughts. </P> <P>You may like to look at some of the threads in the relationships and family issues.</P> <P>Feel free to post when you like. You are not alone as there will be people reading your post who can relate to you.</P> <P>Quirky </P> Fri, 15 Jun 2018 22:53:38 GMT quirkywords 2018-06-15T22:53:38Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/my-husband-has-walked-out/m-p/398386#M28753 <P>Hi , </P> <P>my husband of ten years and 3 girls has walked out . Is consistently tells me I’m fat ugly and a shit mum !!!! He has ODD oppositional defiant disorder , ADHD and it’s always someone else’s fault ... I love him but I’m tired of the pain and hurt ... he has taken one of the girls away for the night and I’m sad and lost ... I need all my chickens I’m the one nest - so Ro speak ...</P> <P>he is a great father but can be at times ( not all the time a terrible husband ...</P> <P>not sure what to do from here I don’t want to give up on our family ... I do still love him - I must be very forgiving haha </P> <P>evbeeyone says take one day at a time ... but how am I going to work full time ( he yelled at me for 1 year till I got a full time job and in his words gave up being a Mum ) now I do work full time and I’m not sure how I’m going to be a single Mum and work long hours .... </P> <P> </P> <P>im very sad not even angry yet ... I feel like a failure to my girls and myself </P> Fri, 15 Jun 2018 10:31:29 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/my-husband-has-walked-out/m-p/398386#M28753 A34 2018-06-15T10:31:29Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/my-husband-has-walked-out/m-p/398387#M28754 <P>A34</P> <P>You have been going through a lot of pain and coping with a difficult situation,</P> <P>i want to welcome you to the forum and thank you for taking the first step in sharing your story. This is a caring and supportive place. </P> <P>Working full time with 3 children is 2 full time jobs. On top of that you have your husband’s disorders, so you may feel overwhelmed at times,</P> <P>Have you thought of going to a counsellor together and talking about your situation..</P> <P>You are doing a great job as a mum. It is understandable you would feel sad and angry,</P> <P>Do you have anyone you can talk to.?</P> <P>beyond blue has a support line you can call 1300 22 4636 THat offers support advice action.</P> <P>Sometimes talking to a trained professional can help you sort out your thoughts. </P> <P>You may like to look at some of the threads in the relationships and family issues.</P> <P>Feel free to post when you like. You are not alone as there will be people reading your post who can relate to you.</P> <P>Quirky </P> Fri, 15 Jun 2018 22:53:38 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/my-husband-has-walked-out/m-p/398387#M28754 quirkywords 2018-06-15T22:53:38Z