https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/workplace-issue/m-p/390922#M28229 <P>I have worked at my workplace for 6yrs now and have formed many friendships over the yrs, but one female collegue is causing great issues <span class="lia-unicode-emoji" title=":disappointed_face:">😞</span> We have the same birth date and were born in the same hospital in the same small country town and we formed a bond together because of this and we both call each other sister's, but not blood sisters ….. </P> <P>on a number of times through Facebook messenger she has repeatedly personally attacked me over minor stuff with work and on facebook but never to my face ( coward?) I have had a gutfull of her doing this, Ive even customed my FB page that she doesn,t see my posts etc and nxt step is to BLOCK HER!</P> <P>last message she sent me was - on Monday night saying I never said hello to her when she came into work that Monday ( as she has Mondays off ) never seen her come into work! ….</P> <P>then attacking me over who I comment and like on FB and that I don't like and comment on any of her posts? like what the hell!</P> <P>Am I so wrong to think she is just all about wanting ATTENTION? …… she has NEVER apologize for any of her behaviour in the past and present and I continue to ignore her messagers and ignore her inperson cause I don't think I should have to justify my actions to her or anyone#</P> <P>But she seems to think she is entitled to treat a person and as close as we were like she does.</P> <P>She always plays the victim in her personal life and at work, shes a hypercondriact and lier and have I ever questioned her about all this NO</P> <P>As I just turn a deaf ear to all that as she will NEVER change.</P> <P>I totally just walk away from people like this as I think there very toxic people who just drain you!</P> <P>I am really considering tranfering out of my current position as I,ve just had it!</P> <P>Just need some help understanding about her behaviour …… thanks.</P> <P> </P> Sun, 18 Nov 2018 01:15:06 GMT MissMc 2018-11-18T01:15:06Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/workplace-issue/m-p/390922#M28229 <P>I have worked at my workplace for 6yrs now and have formed many friendships over the yrs, but one female collegue is causing great issues <span class="lia-unicode-emoji" title=":disappointed_face:">😞</span> We have the same birth date and were born in the same hospital in the same small country town and we formed a bond together because of this and we both call each other sister's, but not blood sisters ….. </P> <P>on a number of times through Facebook messenger she has repeatedly personally attacked me over minor stuff with work and on facebook but never to my face ( coward?) I have had a gutfull of her doing this, Ive even customed my FB page that she doesn,t see my posts etc and nxt step is to BLOCK HER!</P> <P>last message she sent me was - on Monday night saying I never said hello to her when she came into work that Monday ( as she has Mondays off ) never seen her come into work! ….</P> <P>then attacking me over who I comment and like on FB and that I don't like and comment on any of her posts? like what the hell!</P> <P>Am I so wrong to think she is just all about wanting ATTENTION? …… she has NEVER apologize for any of her behaviour in the past and present and I continue to ignore her messagers and ignore her inperson cause I don't think I should have to justify my actions to her or anyone#</P> <P>But she seems to think she is entitled to treat a person and as close as we were like she does.</P> <P>She always plays the victim in her personal life and at work, shes a hypercondriact and lier and have I ever questioned her about all this NO</P> <P>As I just turn a deaf ear to all that as she will NEVER change.</P> <P>I totally just walk away from people like this as I think there very toxic people who just drain you!</P> <P>I am really considering tranfering out of my current position as I,ve just had it!</P> <P>Just need some help understanding about her behaviour …… thanks.</P> <P> </P> Sun, 18 Nov 2018 01:15:06 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/workplace-issue/m-p/390922#M28229 MissMc 2018-11-18T01:15:06Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/workplace-issue/m-p/390923#M28230 <P>Just sounds like a narcissist to be honest. </P> <P>They're hard to deal with </P> Sun, 18 Nov 2018 05:13:05 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/workplace-issue/m-p/390923#M28230 Guest_7403 2018-11-18T05:13:05Z