https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/my-mum-is-having-an-innaprorate-relationship-with-my-ex-husband/m-p/378667#M26752 <P>My mother and sister blamed me for my ex relationship breakdown....</P> <P>They continue to go see her 3 years later for catch ups...it infuriates me and even tho I've told them I think it's innapropriate they claim she needs support to and they can see whoever they want </P> <P>Ex is a narcissist so I'm not surprised they are pulled to her</P> <P> </P> <P>Sorry to hear your situation</P> Wed, 06 Mar 2019 00:33:32 GMT Guest_7403 2019-03-06T00:33:32Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/my-mum-is-having-an-innaprorate-relationship-with-my-ex-husband/m-p/378666#M26751 Im just wondering if anyone here has ever been in a situation where there parent sides with the ex. I got divorced a few years ago and am estranged from my mother due to the fact she still see's my ex husband several times a week. There have been people comming down 2 my dads workshop saying that she is having an affair with my ex husband . Dad says she is not, and is only making it look that way to spite me her daughter. Anybody else had this kind of betrayal? Tue, 05 Mar 2019 23:57:17 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/my-mum-is-having-an-innaprorate-relationship-with-my-ex-husband/m-p/378666#M26751 Jacinta__0 2019-03-05T23:57:17Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/my-mum-is-having-an-innaprorate-relationship-with-my-ex-husband/m-p/378667#M26752 <P>My mother and sister blamed me for my ex relationship breakdown....</P> <P>They continue to go see her 3 years later for catch ups...it infuriates me and even tho I've told them I think it's innapropriate they claim she needs support to and they can see whoever they want </P> <P>Ex is a narcissist so I'm not surprised they are pulled to her</P> <P> </P> <P>Sorry to hear your situation</P> Wed, 06 Mar 2019 00:33:32 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/my-mum-is-having-an-innaprorate-relationship-with-my-ex-husband/m-p/378667#M26752 Guest_7403 2019-03-06T00:33:32Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/my-mum-is-having-an-innaprorate-relationship-with-my-ex-husband/m-p/378668#M26753 <P>Hello Jacinta</P> <P>Welcome to this supportive forum. </P> <P>I am sorry that your mum is seeing your ex several times a week. </P> <P>I know where inlaws have kept in contact so they can keep in contact with their grandchildren.</P> <P>I think there is being civil and friendly and then there is inappropriate. Maybe once a year , or send a birthday card but as you are upset by this it seems your mum is not considering your feelings.</P> <P>Have you told your mum how her actions are upsetting and affecting you? </P> <P>Would you consider talking to your ex about your mum?</P> <P> </P> <P>Quirky </P> <P> </P> <P> </P> <P> </P> Wed, 06 Mar 2019 01:30:21 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/my-mum-is-having-an-innaprorate-relationship-with-my-ex-husband/m-p/378668#M26753 quirkywords 2019-03-06T01:30:21Z