https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/when-he-doesnt-love-you-anymore/m-p/363726#M24594 <P>Hi Australianbelle,</P> <P>I feel your sadness and deep sense of loss and hurt. Your fiancé broke your heart...</P> <P>He meant everything to you, and he was also your main support person. I think it can be so confusing and devastating when someone we love unexpectedly announces that they no longer love us...that pain goes to our very core.</P> <P>Then there’s also your other stresses like how you rely on him for transport and income, uni issues plus not having other people to turn to for support. I would think it all must be so overwhelming and lonely...</P> <P>I’m not 100% sure what you should do, but I can offer gentle suggestions and you can see if you like my ideas or not...</P> <P>Maybe it would help to try to tackle one problem at a time, such as, trying to resolve the most pressing issue right now before dealing with the next. For example, if your most pressing issue, aside from the deep heartbreak, is a loss of income, maybe that’s something to try to deal with first...</P> <P>To help you do this, perhaps you might like to try calling a helpline. There’s the BeyondBlue helpline on 1300 22 4636 for emotional support and advice, or if you’re after more practical financial assistance, you might like to try calling Salvos or Anglicare.</P> <P>Plus of course you’re most welcome to continue writing here if you feel comfortable doing so. We are here to support you...you can write as often as you like...</P> <P>Kind and caring thoughts,</P> <P>Pepper</P> <P> </P> Thu, 25 Oct 2018 20:50:58 GMT Peppermintbach 2018-10-25T20:50:58Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/when-he-doesnt-love-you-anymore/m-p/363725#M24593 So my Fiancè of three years has just told me he doesnt love me anymore. I love him so much...this hurts so bad. Weve built a life together and now it's just crumbled. I'm scared and confused and dont know what to do. I'm a full time uni student and rely on his income (I cant get centrelink either). I cant drive because I'm legally blind so hes the person who drives me. This is crushing and I live in the country with no public transport so its destroyed my chances of getting a job...or even getting to uni. I cant even afford to go now. I also have no friends or family I can talk to (I have no friends in general). I built my life around him. Moved to where he wanted (where theres bo public transport) and do my best to contribute to bills (even selling my beloved pets just so I can help out). What do I do?! Thu, 25 Oct 2018 14:07:06 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/when-he-doesnt-love-you-anymore/m-p/363725#M24593 Australianbelle 2018-10-25T14:07:06Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/when-he-doesnt-love-you-anymore/m-p/363726#M24594 <P>Hi Australianbelle,</P> <P>I feel your sadness and deep sense of loss and hurt. Your fiancé broke your heart...</P> <P>He meant everything to you, and he was also your main support person. I think it can be so confusing and devastating when someone we love unexpectedly announces that they no longer love us...that pain goes to our very core.</P> <P>Then there’s also your other stresses like how you rely on him for transport and income, uni issues plus not having other people to turn to for support. I would think it all must be so overwhelming and lonely...</P> <P>I’m not 100% sure what you should do, but I can offer gentle suggestions and you can see if you like my ideas or not...</P> <P>Maybe it would help to try to tackle one problem at a time, such as, trying to resolve the most pressing issue right now before dealing with the next. For example, if your most pressing issue, aside from the deep heartbreak, is a loss of income, maybe that’s something to try to deal with first...</P> <P>To help you do this, perhaps you might like to try calling a helpline. There’s the BeyondBlue helpline on 1300 22 4636 for emotional support and advice, or if you’re after more practical financial assistance, you might like to try calling Salvos or Anglicare.</P> <P>Plus of course you’re most welcome to continue writing here if you feel comfortable doing so. We are here to support you...you can write as often as you like...</P> <P>Kind and caring thoughts,</P> <P>Pepper</P> <P> </P> Thu, 25 Oct 2018 20:50:58 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/when-he-doesnt-love-you-anymore/m-p/363726#M24594 Peppermintbach 2018-10-25T20:50:58Z