https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/pregnant-and-unsure-what-to-do/m-p/323051#M21536 I have just got pregnant from a work colleague. We are both single and both had a one night hook up with me falling pregnant. He wants me to have an abortion and i dont think i want that. So unsure abd so broken about it <span class="lia-unicode-emoji" title=":disappointed_face:">😞</span> Sat, 20 May 2017 13:16:45 GMT Bellakarina 2017-05-20T13:16:45Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/pregnant-and-unsure-what-to-do/m-p/323051#M21536 I have just got pregnant from a work colleague. We are both single and both had a one night hook up with me falling pregnant. He wants me to have an abortion and i dont think i want that. So unsure abd so broken about it <span class="lia-unicode-emoji" title=":disappointed_face:">😞</span> Sat, 20 May 2017 13:16:45 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/pregnant-and-unsure-what-to-do/m-p/323051#M21536 Bellakarina 2017-05-20T13:16:45Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/pregnant-and-unsure-what-to-do/m-p/323052#M21537 <P>Hey Bellakarina,</P> <P>Welcome to the forum!</P> <P>This is a tough situation. Ultimately it's your choice as to whether you keep the baby, as it's your body. It's not this simple of course, but I just wanted to state that first. If you did have the baby, do you feel you have support from family or close friends when you're raising him/her? Being a single parent is doable, but having emotional support is best for your wellbeing, as working and raising a child by yourself could be exhausting. </P> <P>Talking to a close family member about this (whoever you trust the most) could help. You could also talk to your doctor (GP) about your options and how you are feeling emotionally. </P> <P>I hope you are able to make a decision that you are comfortable with.</P> <P>Best wishes,</P> <P>Zeal</P> Sat, 20 May 2017 13:32:30 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/pregnant-and-unsure-what-to-do/m-p/323052#M21537 Zeal 2017-05-20T13:32:30Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/pregnant-and-unsure-what-to-do/m-p/323053#M21538 <P>Hey there Bellakarina,</P> <P>Just thought I would check to see how you are doing?</P> <P>If you need/want to chat, I been there.</P> <P>Later</P> Wed, 31 May 2017 09:39:19 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/pregnant-and-unsure-what-to-do/m-p/323053#M21538 Guest_128 2017-05-31T09:39:19Z