https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/how-to-let-go/m-p/306899#M20161 Thank you Wed, 11 Oct 2017 06:58:33 GMT Peachy06 2017-10-11T06:58:33Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/how-to-let-go/m-p/306893#M20155 <P>Hi </P> <P>I have just ended a two and a half year relationship. He wanted me to change into his idea of perfect and everything I did was wrong. It appears before I actually ended things he had already checked out anyway and two weeks after we ended he already had a new girlfriend. This is not the first time it's happened to me. I feel disrespected in a way but I guess he couldn't help but move on since he had already checked out. It really hurts and I don't know how to let go and move on myself now. </P> <P>Thanks </P> Fri, 06 Oct 2017 12:46:39 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/how-to-let-go/m-p/306893#M20155 Peachy06 2017-10-06T12:46:39Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/how-to-let-go/m-p/306894#M20156 <P>Hi Peachy, welcome </P> <P>Please don't feel you are alone in picking the wrong partner. I'm on my 4th and finally got a goodie.</P> <P>Its heartbreaking and if your grief us extreme visit your GP ok?.</P> <P>Google</P> <P>Topic: the best praise you'll ever get- beyondblue </P> <P>Tony WK </P> Fri, 06 Oct 2017 13:09:33 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/how-to-let-go/m-p/306894#M20156 white knight 2017-10-06T13:09:33Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/how-to-let-go/m-p/306895#M20157 <G class="gr_ gr_13 gr-alert gr_gramm gr_inline_cards gr_run_anim Punctuation only-ins replaceWithoutSep" id="13" data-gr-id="13">hi</G> Peachy, you can't run your life as your partner wants you to, you have your own personality and only you can change whatever you want to, however there <G class="gr_ gr_11 gr-alert gr_spell gr_inline_cards gr_run_anim ContextualSpelling ins-del" id="11" data-gr-id="11">maybe</G> times when we all need a helping hand to get us out of a difficult situation.<BR /> You have been hurt and that annoys you, but with this <G class="gr_ gr_16 gr-alert gr_gramm gr_inline_cards gr_run_anim Punctuation only-ins replaceWithoutSep" id="16" data-gr-id="16">chap</G> he will a life of disappointing many ladies and will come out second best.<BR /> You are wanting someone to be faithful, loving, caring who both enjoy each others company and have a sense of humour that joins with you.<BR /> People like this aren't worth worrying about, it's his life which will be a strange mystery. Geoff. Sat, 07 Oct 2017 21:50:23 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/how-to-let-go/m-p/306895#M20157 geoff 2017-10-07T21:50:23Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/how-to-let-go/m-p/306896#M20158 Hi Peachy, it always hurts when someone moves on quickly after a relationship. However, it sounds like it wasn't the healthiest relationship, as it's not really fair to want to change someone and suggest that everything they do is wrong. I think moving on from the end of a relationship is very disrespectful, but it's him who should be embarrassed for his behaviour - not you. I think someone doing that says more about them than it does about the kind of person you are. It may take a while to move on from this so take your time with healing and be kind to yourself. Sat, 07 Oct 2017 23:11:45 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/how-to-let-go/m-p/306896#M20158 Jessicatherese94 2017-10-07T23:11:45Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/how-to-let-go/m-p/306897#M20159 Thank you! Wed, 11 Oct 2017 06:57:03 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/how-to-let-go/m-p/306897#M20159 Peachy06 2017-10-11T06:57:03Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/how-to-let-go/m-p/306898#M20160 Thank you so much! I needed to hear that Wed, 11 Oct 2017 06:57:49 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/how-to-let-go/m-p/306898#M20160 Peachy06 2017-10-11T06:57:49Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/how-to-let-go/m-p/306899#M20161 Thank you Wed, 11 Oct 2017 06:58:33 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/how-to-let-go/m-p/306899#M20161 Peachy06 2017-10-11T06:58:33Z