https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/issues-with-sister/m-p/293064#M19324 <P>Hi All,</P> <P>This is my first post, and I'm looking for some advice from strangers!</P> <P>My husband and father bought a property for my sister to live in, it was supposed to be a long term option. She has moved out after about 18 months. My husband and I have learned that she never removed her name from community housing lists. This has angered me to the point where I don't want anything to do with her. I view the non removal of her name from community housing lists as a lack of commitment. Am I over reacting?</P> Tue, 03 Oct 2017 05:59:02 GMT Ozzymaid 2017-10-03T05:59:02Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/issues-with-sister/m-p/293064#M19324 <P>Hi All,</P> <P>This is my first post, and I'm looking for some advice from strangers!</P> <P>My husband and father bought a property for my sister to live in, it was supposed to be a long term option. She has moved out after about 18 months. My husband and I have learned that she never removed her name from community housing lists. This has angered me to the point where I don't want anything to do with her. I view the non removal of her name from community housing lists as a lack of commitment. Am I over reacting?</P> Tue, 03 Oct 2017 05:59:02 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/issues-with-sister/m-p/293064#M19324 Ozzymaid 2017-10-03T05:59:02Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/issues-with-sister/m-p/293065#M19325 <P>Hi there, </P> <P>Did she give u a reason why she moved out at all? </P> <P>About keeping her name on the list I don't see any harm in that. She would have the choice if something came up (takes so long) to stay or leave, at the end if the day it's her life. I can see how it would be frustrating though because a lot was done for her. </P> <P>I personally like change &amp; move around others prefer safety &amp; security. Is she the type to stay in one place or move around? </P> <P>Life these days changes, for eg.you might lose your job and have to relocate for work, so having another option is a great thing in my eyes so I'd have backup plans personally. But that's me &amp; one opinion. Everyone is different. </P> <P> </P> Tue, 03 Oct 2017 08:10:59 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/issues-with-sister/m-p/293065#M19325 monkey_magic 2017-10-03T08:10:59Z