https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/separated-after-first-baby/m-p/274402#M18078 I don't know how this happened, I have just had my first baby 7 months old, and found my husband has been seeing prostitutes and taking drugs for the past 5 months, Im in so much shock I can't eat or sleep and feel like my world is falling apart. I am trying to do everything possible to be here for my baby. We have been together 7 1/2 years married for 1 1/2. I have kicked him out of our home, I am so confused and hurt I am unsure if he has been dealing with depression after the baby as he disconnected completely I have basicly raised our baby on my own. He is saying he still wants to be married and has started seeing a psychologist. I have no idea what I should do right now Thu, 18 Aug 2016 03:48:33 GMT Countthestars 2016-08-18T03:48:33Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/separated-after-first-baby/m-p/274402#M18078 I don't know how this happened, I have just had my first baby 7 months old, and found my husband has been seeing prostitutes and taking drugs for the past 5 months, Im in so much shock I can't eat or sleep and feel like my world is falling apart. I am trying to do everything possible to be here for my baby. We have been together 7 1/2 years married for 1 1/2. I have kicked him out of our home, I am so confused and hurt I am unsure if he has been dealing with depression after the baby as he disconnected completely I have basicly raised our baby on my own. He is saying he still wants to be married and has started seeing a psychologist. I have no idea what I should do right now Thu, 18 Aug 2016 03:48:33 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/separated-after-first-baby/m-p/274402#M18078 Countthestars 2016-08-18T03:48:33Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/separated-after-first-baby/m-p/274403#M18079 <P>Dear count the stars, </P> <P>You must be having a difficult time with your husband and new baby. </P> <P>Go with your heart. Can you forgive your husband? Is he taking the physcologist help seriously? </P> <P>Do you have any support in family, friends, counsellors? </P> <P>I got married really young, had children that he never wanted or helped out with. Many people told me he was cheating, I stayed for 18 miserable years that has left me feeling worthless, very low self esteem, no friends or family. </P> <P>Its great you are looking for solutions now. You need to look after your baby and yourself. </P> <P>Take care xxx </P> Sun, 21 Aug 2016 01:09:29 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/separated-after-first-baby/m-p/274403#M18079 Shaz1 2016-08-21T01:09:29Z