https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/any-suggestions/m-p/175490#M12029 <P>dear Grilled Whiting, just briefly there is a post by Steve1 where his wife is not interested in having sex, which you might like to read, I don't have the link, but comments were made on it yesterday so it maybe on page 1 or page 2.</P> <P>Never the less my wife (ex) had moved into another bedroom before she divorced me, but it was a long time that we were intimate, and she also wouldn't talk about it, even though I was too afraid of what could happen if I mentioned it, knowing that if I did, it would then be another few months if anything happened. </P> <P>Try and find that other post which is quite long and read what other people have said. Geoff.</P> Fri, 18 Dec 2015 18:42:25 GMT geoff 2015-12-18T18:42:25Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/any-suggestions/m-p/175489#M12028 I have been married for 15 years and I have not had sex with my wife for 4 years. &nbsp;She says she is tired and just not interested but I think thats just a convenient excuse. &nbsp;Have tried talking about it but says she's not interested in it and fobs me off. &nbsp; The situation is getting ridiculous. &nbsp; Fri, 18 Dec 2015 17:13:57 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/any-suggestions/m-p/175489#M12028 Grilled_Whiting 2015-12-18T17:13:57Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/any-suggestions/m-p/175490#M12029 <P>dear Grilled Whiting, just briefly there is a post by Steve1 where his wife is not interested in having sex, which you might like to read, I don't have the link, but comments were made on it yesterday so it maybe on page 1 or page 2.</P> <P>Never the less my wife (ex) had moved into another bedroom before she divorced me, but it was a long time that we were intimate, and she also wouldn't talk about it, even though I was too afraid of what could happen if I mentioned it, knowing that if I did, it would then be another few months if anything happened. </P> <P>Try and find that other post which is quite long and read what other people have said. Geoff.</P> Fri, 18 Dec 2015 18:42:25 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/relationship-and-family-issues/any-suggestions/m-p/175490#M12029 geoff 2015-12-18T18:42:25Z