https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/treatments-health-professionals/doctors-giving-bad-news-is-part-of-the-job/m-p/428337#M10688 My ex husband has nearly died from liver failure. In hospital doctors talked about his symptoms and tests but none of them articulated his diagnosis (Cirrhosis) or told him his drinking would lead to more hospitalisations, full time care and death. They told me - but not him. I accompanied him to his follow up GP visit and it was glossed over there as well - like it was a secret. In the end I had to have the talk with him, translate his discharge notes and track down a <EM>'Cirrhosis and Your Liver'</EM> kit. This is not my job! It's also not very effective - my ex husband has made an artform out of ignoring me. I know it must be difficult for doctors to have these conversations with patients but it's part of the job. Just get on with it! Sat, 13 Apr 2019 19:50:51 GMT grt123 2019-04-13T19:50:51Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/treatments-health-professionals/doctors-giving-bad-news-is-part-of-the-job/m-p/428337#M10688 My ex husband has nearly died from liver failure. In hospital doctors talked about his symptoms and tests but none of them articulated his diagnosis (Cirrhosis) or told him his drinking would lead to more hospitalisations, full time care and death. They told me - but not him. I accompanied him to his follow up GP visit and it was glossed over there as well - like it was a secret. In the end I had to have the talk with him, translate his discharge notes and track down a <EM>'Cirrhosis and Your Liver'</EM> kit. This is not my job! It's also not very effective - my ex husband has made an artform out of ignoring me. I know it must be difficult for doctors to have these conversations with patients but it's part of the job. Just get on with it! Sat, 13 Apr 2019 19:50:51 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/treatments-health-professionals/doctors-giving-bad-news-is-part-of-the-job/m-p/428337#M10688 grt123 2019-04-13T19:50:51Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/treatments-health-professionals/doctors-giving-bad-news-is-part-of-the-job/m-p/428338#M10689 <P>grt123, </P> <P>Sorry that you had to tell your ex.</P> <P>Maybe the doctor was busy or thought the message coming from you would have more effect. </P> <P>Your ex husband is lucky to have you supporting him.</P> <P>Quirky</P> <P> </P> <P> </P> Sun, 14 Apr 2019 08:23:44 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/treatments-health-professionals/doctors-giving-bad-news-is-part-of-the-job/m-p/428338#M10689 quirkywords 2019-04-14T08:23:44Z