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    <title>topic Three self-care things you did today! in Staying well</title>
    <link>https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/staying-well/three-self-care-things-you-did-today/m-p/535171#M53979</link>
    <description>&lt;P&gt;Thanks for being happy for me Shell. You are so lovely and I am happy reading of how you are travelling at the moment and facing your fears too &lt;span class="lia-unicode-emoji" title=":slightly_smiling_face:"&gt;🙂&lt;/span&gt; As EM would say, onwards and upwards for you Shelly x&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;And to OUR wonderful EM, thank you too. Thank you for all you do on this thread. Starting it, being so active in supporting us, and sharing your wisdom. You are one strong woman!! Actually in following everyone's posts I think everyone is pretty strong even if in a small way like me.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Yes re the anger thing; my counsellor trying to help me for 12 mo has been banging on about anger the entire time. And I say I am not angry. And he says, "well you should be. I am sure it is there". That would make me get angry at him lol. But I think hitting rock bottom (still), coupled with getting bits of help from counsellor, or lifelines, even following on here.. and hating myself more and more everyday. Whilst my 'mum' is off living life and not ever a care for me. It makes me have to face reality/accept as you say. It hurts. But that is what makes me angry. My counsellor said "they have been occupying free rent in your head all this time". My family of origin. So whilst they don't give me a care, and enjoy my suffering they have caused. I am the one that feels guilty and missing them and depressed and treating self the way I have been. I wish I could erase them from my mind. But it is hard. So what I have to do is as you say the Acceptance and the Radical Self Care. I spend my days in bed miserable thinking of them and so sad for what should be/what I had hoped in a family etc and trying to find reason. But I have been doing this for years and my 'life' has been passing me by. And quite unwell physically also - and sitting around in bed not helping. I am out of breath to even stand up at the moment. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;So I think it really hitting rock bottom of never brushing teeth, not sleeping, not even walking to the letterbox (developed into full blown agoraphobia these last couple months) and the decline in already poor health and fitness. Made me angry at my family, especially 'mum' for causing all this self-hatred, and it is not affecting her at all. Only me. So I think a big F - U to my family, and a big self hug to me and start to do these things kindly to myself. Thanks EM - Your post is so insightful, thank you for sharing it. I will need to read a few times over I think as I navigate all this. Thanks so much x&lt;/P&gt;</description>
    <pubDate>Wed, 19 May 2021 02:02:21 GMT</pubDate>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;We can do it BBers, we can do self-care. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Sleepy21 pointed out&lt;EM&gt; research &lt;/EM&gt;that&lt;EM&gt; &lt;/EM&gt;shows self-care REALLY helps! &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Please share what you do for self-care so we can get inspiration, ideas and motivation to do it too. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Best wishes&lt;BR /&gt;
EM&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 11 Oct 2020 11:01:21 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>ecomama</dc:creator>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;OKAY I'll go first:&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;1. Cried when I needed to&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;2. Made a healthy dinner&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;3. Put face cream on&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;EM&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 11 Oct 2020 11:06:40 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>ecomama</dc:creator>
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      <description>1. Ate a salad
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&lt;BR /&gt;2. Had a snooze
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&lt;BR /&gt;3. Quality time with mum</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 11 Oct 2020 11:12:52 GMT</pubDate>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;Hey all...&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;i love this thread&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;a few self-care things i've been doing&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;1) following what i learn in hospital and presenting my meals nicely - more appealing and "treat" like. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;2) short walks &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;3) reading the newspaper&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;4) having a podcast going in the background so I can tune in and out and relax&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 11 Oct 2020 11:18:24 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>Guest_1643</dc:creator>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;Mowed the lawns&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;played with the dogs&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Stood back and admired the renovations i have done.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Not_Batman&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 11 Oct 2020 11:22:22 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>Not_Batman</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2020-10-11T11:22:22Z</dc:date>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;Have noticed a lot of resistance coming up to self-care....&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;feeling like somehow it's like i've done enough self care etc... putting pressure on myself to not need it.&lt;BR /&gt;
at those times i probably need it more than ever.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 11 Oct 2020 11:35:41 GMT</pubDate>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;I'm hearing you &lt;STRONG&gt;Sleepy21 &lt;/STRONG&gt;loud and clear. I never think I've done enough self-care... I just resist doing it completely! &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;BIG struggle for me. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;I love your presenting food like a treat one lol! Never thought of that. &lt;BR /&gt;
I always forget about podcasts.. hmm. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;monkey_magic &lt;/STRONG&gt;- lovely spending quality time with mum... awww. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Wow &lt;STRONG&gt;Not_Batman&lt;/STRONG&gt; - what a set of achievements today! I think you &lt;EM&gt;are &lt;/EM&gt;Batman with super powers like that! Lol. Well done you. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Thanks guys! Lots of inspiration already! &lt;BR /&gt;
EM&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 11 Oct 2020 11:47:35 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>ecomama</dc:creator>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;My self-care things today: &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;1. drank lots of water&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;2. ate a good lunch&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;3. had hugs with my pets&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;4. had a nap&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;EM&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 13 Oct 2020 11:36:24 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>ecomama</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2020-10-13T11:36:24Z</dc:date>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;hot drink while sitting outside&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;took some time for myself when some very chatty neighbours wanted to talk to me (sorry, not today lol)&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;put on a snug jumper&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;(these are hard to write)&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;(i'm not good at this).&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;great to work on this &lt;span class="lia-unicode-emoji" title=":slightly_smiling_face:"&gt;🙂&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 13 Oct 2020 12:29:49 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>Guest_1643</dc:creator>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;My self care today:&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;- had a shower&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;- finished cleaning the house and did all laundry&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;- listened to guided meditation &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;- did mindspot course for anxiety/depression&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 13 Oct 2020 12:49:28 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>Butterfly20</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2020-10-13T12:49:28Z</dc:date>
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      <description>mindfulness is great self-care - so impressive, Butterly2.0!</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 13 Oct 2020 13:13:00 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>Guest_1643</dc:creator>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;Doing well team..&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Today&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;1. I wrote on BB&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;2. changed into PJs when I got home&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;3. ate lunch&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 14 Oct 2020 04:37:50 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>ecomama</dc:creator>
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      <description>&lt;OL&gt;
    &lt;LI&gt;&lt;EM&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;I made the decision to start paying more attention to the kinds of activities I could be doing so that I feel more content and happy with my life,&lt;/STRONG&gt;&lt;/EM&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;
    &lt;LI&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;&lt;EM&gt;I also cleaned my kitchen &amp;amp;&lt;/EM&gt;&lt;EM&gt;&lt;/EM&gt;&lt;/STRONG&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;
    &lt;LI&gt;&lt;EM&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;I spent time reading.&lt;/STRONG&gt;&lt;/EM&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;
&lt;/OL&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 14 Oct 2020 14:31:10 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>asdfge</dc:creator>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;That's beautiful asdfge.... I like how you are spending time thinking about activities you like doing to increase your contentment. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;and WELCOME to the forums! wow I just noticed this is your first post! &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Very warm welcome... we have all sorts of threads in the well being section like cooking, gardening and home improvements... I hope to see you round! &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Love EM&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 14 Oct 2020 14:43:33 GMT</pubDate>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;Today I&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;* had a long bath&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;* put a hair treatment in my hair&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;* wore jewellery (not sure if this counts lol but it kinda does for me)&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;* phoned a friend&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;EM&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 15 Oct 2020 02:09:31 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>ecomama</dc:creator>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;Hi all, my 3 self-care activities were... &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;1) Having an extra sleep in &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;2) Eating a delicious pie for lunch &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;3) Painting my nails&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 15 Oct 2020 02:15:27 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>Bellss</dc:creator>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;LOVE your self-care things &lt;STRONG&gt;Sleepy21&lt;/STRONG&gt;, &lt;STRONG&gt;Butterfly20&lt;/STRONG&gt; and another BIG warm welcome to the forums to &lt;STRONG&gt;Bellss&lt;/STRONG&gt;! &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Sleepy21 sent me some sparkles for my nails lol so I'll use them on Sunday when I repaint my nails! Thanks Sleepy21! &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Today I'll be doing home renos with my Uncle so my nails will cop it lol. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Who's Number 1? YOU ARE! &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Let's get busy with self-care peeps. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Love EM&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 15 Oct 2020 16:49:34 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>ecomama</dc:creator>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;Hi everyone,&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;here is what I did:&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;1. Wished my papa/mama and my brother in the morning&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;2. Cooked dinner for papa/mama&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;3. Helped my mama in house chores&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2020 08:54:42 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>Jasjit</dc:creator>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;BIG day helping others today &lt;STRONG&gt;Jasjit&lt;/STRONG&gt;! Aren't you a sweetheart, what a lucky family to have you! &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Did you do anything for your own self-care? &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;After looking after all those people, I hope you had some time for you. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;xxEM&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2020 09:15:58 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>ecomama</dc:creator>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;Happy Saturday!&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Had a sleep in.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Went to the park with the kids.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Strolled through hammer barn (bunnings).&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Not_Batman&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Sat, 17 Oct 2020 02:50:37 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>Not_Batman</dc:creator>
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