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    <title>topic Three self-care things you did today! in Staying well</title>
    <link>https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/staying-well/three-self-care-things-you-did-today/m-p/534831#M53639</link>
    <description>&lt;P&gt;Hey golden, now YOU are being the Energizer Bunny on the forums! lol. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Yeah the 'ABC Chart for behaviour' can also be modified &amp;amp; used for our &lt;EM&gt;thoughts&lt;/EM&gt;. &lt;BR /&gt;
It's in your "Backpack of Strategies" now. It could be useful, see what you think. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Today I had to speak with BF about my &lt;EM&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;Baseline Mental HEALTH&lt;/STRONG&gt;&lt;/EM&gt; go to list. &lt;BR /&gt;
These are: &lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;EM&gt;- eat well&lt;BR /&gt;
- sleep well&lt;BR /&gt;
- move more&lt;BR /&gt;
- cleanse ie shower, bath, hose in the garden lol, whatever it is. &lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;/EM&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
Today he said "I need to work on my depression", I replied "OH don't work on your depression! Do things for your Mental HEALTH!" lol. It took him a while to process what I said. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;My self-care today: &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;* cried when I needed to. The loss of our darling chicken is tangible. I realised my hands felt numb tonight (NOT a good sign... depression / anxiety creeping in and possible dissociation, my psych friend is visiting for a short time in the morning so I'll ask her lol). &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;* had a wonderful long bath, doing the works and listening to Brene all the while lol. She's great company ANY WHERE for me. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;* had a long nap. 6h broken sleep over 2 days was not enough! &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;* bought a beautiful pink fluffy succulent I'd never seen before in the Nursery today with Yvette. It's in memory of our darling chicken for the front garden. It's ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL and looks sweet in a pot atm. Hopefully I can divide it up into 2 other very large pots over time. A really sweet entrance into our garden. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Thankyou smallwolf, I entirely agree with your &lt;EM&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;'3 things to look forward to'&lt;/STRONG&gt;&lt;/EM&gt;... that really helped me MOVE forward from the horrible traumas I'd experienced. I put events, no matter how small, into my phone Diary with a Hibiscus (ofcourse lol) at the front of the Entry. Then I knew I had that to look forward to. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;So my &lt;STRONG&gt;&lt;EM&gt;'thing to look forward to' &lt;/EM&gt;&lt;/STRONG&gt;this week is, believe it or not, going back to work lol! &lt;BR /&gt;
I miss the atmosphere of a mostly rational space. &lt;BR /&gt;
I'm going from leave to full time work, from part time for most of last year. &lt;BR /&gt;
I'm looking forward to sinking my teeth into my work in that capacity. &lt;BR /&gt;
Maybe all my renovation bumps can heal lol and I can pay someone else to do stuff at home at times; my gardener, a tree lopper, my Uncle taking over renos (omg lol), etc.&lt;BR /&gt;
It'll be GREAT! &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Love EM&lt;/P&gt;</description>
    <pubDate>Sat, 23 Jan 2021 11:49:31 GMT</pubDate>
    <dc:creator>ecomama</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2021-01-23T11:49:31Z</dc:date>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;We can do it BBers, we can do self-care. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Sleepy21 pointed out&lt;EM&gt; research &lt;/EM&gt;that&lt;EM&gt; &lt;/EM&gt;shows self-care REALLY helps! &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Please share what you do for self-care so we can get inspiration, ideas and motivation to do it too. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Best wishes&lt;BR /&gt;
EM&lt;/P&gt;
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      <pubDate>Sun, 11 Oct 2020 11:01:21 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>ecomama</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2020-10-11T11:01:21Z</dc:date>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;OKAY I'll go first:&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;1. Cried when I needed to&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;2. Made a healthy dinner&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;3. Put face cream on&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;EM&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 11 Oct 2020 11:06:40 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:date>2020-10-11T11:06:40Z</dc:date>
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      <description>1. Ate a salad
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&lt;BR /&gt;2. Had a snooze
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&lt;BR /&gt;3. Quality time with mum</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 11 Oct 2020 11:12:52 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:date>2020-10-11T11:12:52Z</dc:date>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;Hey all...&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;i love this thread&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;a few self-care things i've been doing&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;1) following what i learn in hospital and presenting my meals nicely - more appealing and "treat" like. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;2) short walks &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;3) reading the newspaper&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;4) having a podcast going in the background so I can tune in and out and relax&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 11 Oct 2020 11:18:24 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>Guest_1643</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2020-10-11T11:18:24Z</dc:date>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;Mowed the lawns&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;played with the dogs&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Stood back and admired the renovations i have done.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Not_Batman&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 11 Oct 2020 11:22:22 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>Not_Batman</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2020-10-11T11:22:22Z</dc:date>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;Have noticed a lot of resistance coming up to self-care....&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;feeling like somehow it's like i've done enough self care etc... putting pressure on myself to not need it.&lt;BR /&gt;
at those times i probably need it more than ever.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 11 Oct 2020 11:35:41 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>Guest_1643</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2020-10-11T11:35:41Z</dc:date>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;I'm hearing you &lt;STRONG&gt;Sleepy21 &lt;/STRONG&gt;loud and clear. I never think I've done enough self-care... I just resist doing it completely! &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;BIG struggle for me. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;I love your presenting food like a treat one lol! Never thought of that. &lt;BR /&gt;
I always forget about podcasts.. hmm. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;monkey_magic &lt;/STRONG&gt;- lovely spending quality time with mum... awww. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Wow &lt;STRONG&gt;Not_Batman&lt;/STRONG&gt; - what a set of achievements today! I think you &lt;EM&gt;are &lt;/EM&gt;Batman with super powers like that! Lol. Well done you. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Thanks guys! Lots of inspiration already! &lt;BR /&gt;
EM&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 11 Oct 2020 11:47:35 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>ecomama</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2020-10-11T11:47:35Z</dc:date>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;My self-care things today: &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;1. drank lots of water&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;2. ate a good lunch&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;3. had hugs with my pets&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;4. had a nap&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;EM&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 13 Oct 2020 11:36:24 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>ecomama</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2020-10-13T11:36:24Z</dc:date>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;hot drink while sitting outside&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;took some time for myself when some very chatty neighbours wanted to talk to me (sorry, not today lol)&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;put on a snug jumper&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;(these are hard to write)&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;(i'm not good at this).&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;great to work on this &lt;span class="lia-unicode-emoji" title=":slightly_smiling_face:"&gt;🙂&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 13 Oct 2020 12:29:49 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>Guest_1643</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2020-10-13T12:29:49Z</dc:date>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;My self care today:&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;- had a shower&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;- finished cleaning the house and did all laundry&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;- listened to guided meditation &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;- did mindspot course for anxiety/depression&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 13 Oct 2020 12:49:28 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>Butterfly20</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2020-10-13T12:49:28Z</dc:date>
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      <description>mindfulness is great self-care - so impressive, Butterly2.0!</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 13 Oct 2020 13:13:00 GMT</pubDate>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;Doing well team..&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Today&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;1. I wrote on BB&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;2. changed into PJs when I got home&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;3. ate lunch&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 14 Oct 2020 04:37:50 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>ecomama</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2020-10-14T04:37:50Z</dc:date>
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      <description>&lt;OL&gt;
    &lt;LI&gt;&lt;EM&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;I made the decision to start paying more attention to the kinds of activities I could be doing so that I feel more content and happy with my life,&lt;/STRONG&gt;&lt;/EM&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;
    &lt;LI&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;&lt;EM&gt;I also cleaned my kitchen &amp;amp;&lt;/EM&gt;&lt;EM&gt;&lt;/EM&gt;&lt;/STRONG&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;
    &lt;LI&gt;&lt;EM&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;I spent time reading.&lt;/STRONG&gt;&lt;/EM&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;
&lt;/OL&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 14 Oct 2020 14:31:10 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>asdfge</dc:creator>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;That's beautiful asdfge.... I like how you are spending time thinking about activities you like doing to increase your contentment. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;and WELCOME to the forums! wow I just noticed this is your first post! &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Very warm welcome... we have all sorts of threads in the well being section like cooking, gardening and home improvements... I hope to see you round! &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Love EM&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 14 Oct 2020 14:43:33 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>ecomama</dc:creator>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;Today I&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;* had a long bath&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;* put a hair treatment in my hair&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;* wore jewellery (not sure if this counts lol but it kinda does for me)&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;* phoned a friend&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;EM&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 15 Oct 2020 02:09:31 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>ecomama</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2020-10-15T02:09:31Z</dc:date>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;Hi all, my 3 self-care activities were... &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;1) Having an extra sleep in &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;2) Eating a delicious pie for lunch &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;3) Painting my nails&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 15 Oct 2020 02:15:27 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>Bellss</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2020-10-15T02:15:27Z</dc:date>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;LOVE your self-care things &lt;STRONG&gt;Sleepy21&lt;/STRONG&gt;, &lt;STRONG&gt;Butterfly20&lt;/STRONG&gt; and another BIG warm welcome to the forums to &lt;STRONG&gt;Bellss&lt;/STRONG&gt;! &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Sleepy21 sent me some sparkles for my nails lol so I'll use them on Sunday when I repaint my nails! Thanks Sleepy21! &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Today I'll be doing home renos with my Uncle so my nails will cop it lol. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Who's Number 1? YOU ARE! &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Let's get busy with self-care peeps. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Love EM&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 15 Oct 2020 16:49:34 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>ecomama</dc:creator>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;Hi everyone,&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;here is what I did:&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;1. Wished my papa/mama and my brother in the morning&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;2. Cooked dinner for papa/mama&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;3. Helped my mama in house chores&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2020 08:54:42 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>Jasjit</dc:creator>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;BIG day helping others today &lt;STRONG&gt;Jasjit&lt;/STRONG&gt;! Aren't you a sweetheart, what a lucky family to have you! &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Did you do anything for your own self-care? &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;After looking after all those people, I hope you had some time for you. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;xxEM&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2020 09:15:58 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>ecomama</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2020-10-16T09:15:58Z</dc:date>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;Happy Saturday!&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Had a sleep in.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Went to the park with the kids.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Strolled through hammer barn (bunnings).&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Not_Batman&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Sat, 17 Oct 2020 02:50:37 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>Not_Batman</dc:creator>
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