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    <title>topic Three self-care things you did today! in Staying well</title>
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    <description>&lt;P&gt;Hi all, &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Great work guys, as usual. Losing track of the thread again, but have a few notes for you, &lt;STRONG&gt;Golden&lt;/STRONG&gt;. For one, reaching out here is an act of self-care in itself, so you're off to a good start. Secondly, I can relate to both your insomnia and your concern about money, I have likewise had many a sleepless night, and a few without a roof over my head. That changes a person.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Regarding your insomnia, something I did to care for myself better was my low budget version of light therapy. Turned lights down low at night, and rigged up a lamp to a timer, set to turn on when I needed/wanted to get up. You mentioned light sensitivity, so maybe one that isn't overly bright for morning, but brighter than night-time lamps. This helps to reset the circadian rhythm - the body responds to light and darkness. Even if you can't sleep well, a better sense of night and day can help your state of mind.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Regarding money - I'm very much the same about putting money away for bills and do so with &lt;EM&gt;most&lt;/EM&gt; of it. But something I built into my budget was entertainment. Based on the premise that a person who spends nothing on themselves becomes very unhappy very quickly and major budget blowouts happen when that comes to crisis point and you just need &lt;EM&gt;something&lt;/EM&gt; before you go mad. That something usually ends up being big, and often fuels regret. So maybe try to think of spending on yourself as a tool for saving money in the longer term, not just on big spontaneous expenses, but on health care. Depriving ourselves damages our physical and mental health. Save some money - buy yourself something nice!&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Good news - self-care can absolutely happen in bed! If you're having a day where you &lt;EM&gt;really&lt;/EM&gt; can't bring yourself to get up, you can still take care of yourself. Often after work I'm too sore to do much but crawl into bed even if my mind is alert. You did say music and shows are a bit much for you at the moment. Start small. There are some great (free) nature sound apps around, and I often use these to help me relax. "Nature Sounds" and "Sleep Sounds" are good. Also live streams of animals on YouTube (do you have WiFi?) you can watch on your phone. Type in "live bird cam" or "live fish cam" for some pretty relaxing viewing, just birds feeding or fish swimming around. Helps calm the mind, I have these things on in the morning before every work shift, sets me up on the right track for the day ahead.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Blue.&lt;/P&gt;</description>
    <pubDate>Tue, 05 Jan 2021 08:36:08 GMT</pubDate>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;We can do it BBers, we can do self-care. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Sleepy21 pointed out&lt;EM&gt; research &lt;/EM&gt;that&lt;EM&gt; &lt;/EM&gt;shows self-care REALLY helps! &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Please share what you do for self-care so we can get inspiration, ideas and motivation to do it too. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Best wishes&lt;BR /&gt;
EM&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 11 Oct 2020 11:01:21 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>ecomama</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2020-10-11T11:01:21Z</dc:date>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;OKAY I'll go first:&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;1. Cried when I needed to&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;2. Made a healthy dinner&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;3. Put face cream on&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;EM&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 11 Oct 2020 11:06:40 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>ecomama</dc:creator>
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      <description>1. Ate a salad
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&lt;BR /&gt;2. Had a snooze
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&lt;BR /&gt;3. Quality time with mum</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 11 Oct 2020 11:12:52 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>monkey_magic</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2020-10-11T11:12:52Z</dc:date>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;Hey all...&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;i love this thread&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;a few self-care things i've been doing&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;1) following what i learn in hospital and presenting my meals nicely - more appealing and "treat" like. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;2) short walks &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;3) reading the newspaper&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;4) having a podcast going in the background so I can tune in and out and relax&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 11 Oct 2020 11:18:24 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>Guest_1643</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2020-10-11T11:18:24Z</dc:date>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;Mowed the lawns&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;played with the dogs&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Stood back and admired the renovations i have done.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Not_Batman&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 11 Oct 2020 11:22:22 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>Not_Batman</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2020-10-11T11:22:22Z</dc:date>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;Have noticed a lot of resistance coming up to self-care....&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;feeling like somehow it's like i've done enough self care etc... putting pressure on myself to not need it.&lt;BR /&gt;
at those times i probably need it more than ever.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 11 Oct 2020 11:35:41 GMT</pubDate>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;I'm hearing you &lt;STRONG&gt;Sleepy21 &lt;/STRONG&gt;loud and clear. I never think I've done enough self-care... I just resist doing it completely! &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;BIG struggle for me. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;I love your presenting food like a treat one lol! Never thought of that. &lt;BR /&gt;
I always forget about podcasts.. hmm. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;monkey_magic &lt;/STRONG&gt;- lovely spending quality time with mum... awww. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Wow &lt;STRONG&gt;Not_Batman&lt;/STRONG&gt; - what a set of achievements today! I think you &lt;EM&gt;are &lt;/EM&gt;Batman with super powers like that! Lol. Well done you. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Thanks guys! Lots of inspiration already! &lt;BR /&gt;
EM&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 11 Oct 2020 11:47:35 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>ecomama</dc:creator>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;My self-care things today: &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;1. drank lots of water&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;2. ate a good lunch&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;3. had hugs with my pets&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;4. had a nap&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;EM&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 13 Oct 2020 11:36:24 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>ecomama</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2020-10-13T11:36:24Z</dc:date>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;hot drink while sitting outside&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;took some time for myself when some very chatty neighbours wanted to talk to me (sorry, not today lol)&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;put on a snug jumper&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;(these are hard to write)&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;(i'm not good at this).&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;great to work on this &lt;span class="lia-unicode-emoji" title=":slightly_smiling_face:"&gt;🙂&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 13 Oct 2020 12:29:49 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>Guest_1643</dc:creator>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;My self care today:&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;- had a shower&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;- finished cleaning the house and did all laundry&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;- listened to guided meditation &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;- did mindspot course for anxiety/depression&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 13 Oct 2020 12:49:28 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>Butterfly20</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2020-10-13T12:49:28Z</dc:date>
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      <description>mindfulness is great self-care - so impressive, Butterly2.0!</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 13 Oct 2020 13:13:00 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>Guest_1643</dc:creator>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;Doing well team..&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Today&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;1. I wrote on BB&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;2. changed into PJs when I got home&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;3. ate lunch&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 14 Oct 2020 04:37:50 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>ecomama</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2020-10-14T04:37:50Z</dc:date>
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      <description>&lt;OL&gt;
    &lt;LI&gt;&lt;EM&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;I made the decision to start paying more attention to the kinds of activities I could be doing so that I feel more content and happy with my life,&lt;/STRONG&gt;&lt;/EM&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;
    &lt;LI&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;&lt;EM&gt;I also cleaned my kitchen &amp;amp;&lt;/EM&gt;&lt;EM&gt;&lt;/EM&gt;&lt;/STRONG&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;
    &lt;LI&gt;&lt;EM&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;I spent time reading.&lt;/STRONG&gt;&lt;/EM&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;
&lt;/OL&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 14 Oct 2020 14:31:10 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>asdfge</dc:creator>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;That's beautiful asdfge.... I like how you are spending time thinking about activities you like doing to increase your contentment. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;and WELCOME to the forums! wow I just noticed this is your first post! &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Very warm welcome... we have all sorts of threads in the well being section like cooking, gardening and home improvements... I hope to see you round! &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Love EM&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 14 Oct 2020 14:43:33 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>ecomama</dc:creator>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;Today I&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;* had a long bath&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;* put a hair treatment in my hair&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;* wore jewellery (not sure if this counts lol but it kinda does for me)&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;* phoned a friend&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;EM&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 15 Oct 2020 02:09:31 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>ecomama</dc:creator>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;Hi all, my 3 self-care activities were... &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;1) Having an extra sleep in &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;2) Eating a delicious pie for lunch &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;3) Painting my nails&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 15 Oct 2020 02:15:27 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>Bellss</dc:creator>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;LOVE your self-care things &lt;STRONG&gt;Sleepy21&lt;/STRONG&gt;, &lt;STRONG&gt;Butterfly20&lt;/STRONG&gt; and another BIG warm welcome to the forums to &lt;STRONG&gt;Bellss&lt;/STRONG&gt;! &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Sleepy21 sent me some sparkles for my nails lol so I'll use them on Sunday when I repaint my nails! Thanks Sleepy21! &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Today I'll be doing home renos with my Uncle so my nails will cop it lol. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Who's Number 1? YOU ARE! &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Let's get busy with self-care peeps. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Love EM&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 15 Oct 2020 16:49:34 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>ecomama</dc:creator>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;Hi everyone,&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;here is what I did:&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;1. Wished my papa/mama and my brother in the morning&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;2. Cooked dinner for papa/mama&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;3. Helped my mama in house chores&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2020 08:54:42 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>Jasjit</dc:creator>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;BIG day helping others today &lt;STRONG&gt;Jasjit&lt;/STRONG&gt;! Aren't you a sweetheart, what a lucky family to have you! &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Did you do anything for your own self-care? &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;After looking after all those people, I hope you had some time for you. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;xxEM&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2020 09:15:58 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>ecomama</dc:creator>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;Happy Saturday!&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Had a sleep in.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Went to the park with the kids.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Strolled through hammer barn (bunnings).&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Not_Batman&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Sat, 17 Oct 2020 02:50:37 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>Not_Batman</dc:creator>
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