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    <title>topic Three self-care things you did today! in Staying well</title>
    <link>https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/staying-well/three-self-care-things-you-did-today/m-p/534507#M53315</link>
    <description>&lt;P&gt;Hey Not_Batman,&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Failing at self care today was what I meant. Feeling kind of lost, like my time is now so limited and I don't know how best to use it (which sadly usually results in it getting wasted).&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;What don't I like about my job? So much. I work in a supermarket, in the online shopping department (preparing and taking out click and collect orders). &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;On a general level, it's promoting meat and junk food, mass produced packaging, rampant consumerism... Ol' Blue is vegetarian, big on healthy eating, environmentalist and minimalist. I'm sure you can see the disparity.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Further, it's customer service. I have people in my face all day which is hard on an introvert at the best of times, all the more in the midst of a pandemic when both customers and staff are poor at best with social distancing and appropriate hygiene, and I have a partner on immune suppressants after transplant surgery. Just a cold will mess him up, never mind covid.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Have tried for years to leave the place, a combination of a poor job market and my own mental health have made it impossible. Can't pay the bills on what the dole would be. So yeah, my job is trigger No. 1 for my depression and exhausts me so heavily my self care typically goes out the window in my inability to keep up with everything I need to do and I sorely don't want to be going back.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Managed one self care thing, wrote up a household job roster, giving my partner a few tasks he can manage in his reduced capacity (as much for his self esteem as for helping me), wrote "self care" as a "job" for both of us on the list every day of the week.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Nice work with the Christmas trees. &lt;span class="lia-unicode-emoji" title=":slightly_smiling_face:"&gt;🙂&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Blue.&lt;/P&gt;</description>
    <pubDate>Sat, 05 Dec 2020 05:52:13 GMT</pubDate>
    <dc:creator>Clues_Of_Blue</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2020-12-05T05:52:13Z</dc:date>
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      <link>https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/staying-well/three-self-care-things-you-did-today/m-p/534316#M53124</link>
      <description>&lt;P&gt;We can do it BBers, we can do self-care. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Sleepy21 pointed out&lt;EM&gt; research &lt;/EM&gt;that&lt;EM&gt; &lt;/EM&gt;shows self-care REALLY helps! &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Please share what you do for self-care so we can get inspiration, ideas and motivation to do it too. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Best wishes&lt;BR /&gt;
EM&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 11 Oct 2020 11:01:21 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>ecomama</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2020-10-11T11:01:21Z</dc:date>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;OKAY I'll go first:&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;1. Cried when I needed to&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;2. Made a healthy dinner&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;3. Put face cream on&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;EM&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 11 Oct 2020 11:06:40 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>ecomama</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2020-10-11T11:06:40Z</dc:date>
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      <description>1. Ate a salad
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&lt;BR /&gt;2. Had a snooze
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&lt;BR /&gt;3. Quality time with mum</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 11 Oct 2020 11:12:52 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>monkey_magic</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2020-10-11T11:12:52Z</dc:date>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;Hey all...&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;i love this thread&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;a few self-care things i've been doing&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;1) following what i learn in hospital and presenting my meals nicely - more appealing and "treat" like. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;2) short walks &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;3) reading the newspaper&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;4) having a podcast going in the background so I can tune in and out and relax&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 11 Oct 2020 11:18:24 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/staying-well/three-self-care-things-you-did-today/m-p/534319#M53127</guid>
      <dc:creator>Guest_1643</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2020-10-11T11:18:24Z</dc:date>
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      <link>https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/staying-well/three-self-care-things-you-did-today/m-p/534320#M53128</link>
      <description>&lt;P&gt;Mowed the lawns&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;played with the dogs&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Stood back and admired the renovations i have done.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Not_Batman&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 11 Oct 2020 11:22:22 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/staying-well/three-self-care-things-you-did-today/m-p/534320#M53128</guid>
      <dc:creator>Not_Batman</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2020-10-11T11:22:22Z</dc:date>
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      <link>https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/staying-well/three-self-care-things-you-did-today/m-p/534321#M53129</link>
      <description>&lt;P&gt;Have noticed a lot of resistance coming up to self-care....&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;feeling like somehow it's like i've done enough self care etc... putting pressure on myself to not need it.&lt;BR /&gt;
at those times i probably need it more than ever.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 11 Oct 2020 11:35:41 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/staying-well/three-self-care-things-you-did-today/m-p/534321#M53129</guid>
      <dc:creator>Guest_1643</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2020-10-11T11:35:41Z</dc:date>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;I'm hearing you &lt;STRONG&gt;Sleepy21 &lt;/STRONG&gt;loud and clear. I never think I've done enough self-care... I just resist doing it completely! &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;BIG struggle for me. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;I love your presenting food like a treat one lol! Never thought of that. &lt;BR /&gt;
I always forget about podcasts.. hmm. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;monkey_magic &lt;/STRONG&gt;- lovely spending quality time with mum... awww. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Wow &lt;STRONG&gt;Not_Batman&lt;/STRONG&gt; - what a set of achievements today! I think you &lt;EM&gt;are &lt;/EM&gt;Batman with super powers like that! Lol. Well done you. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Thanks guys! Lots of inspiration already! &lt;BR /&gt;
EM&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 11 Oct 2020 11:47:35 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>ecomama</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2020-10-11T11:47:35Z</dc:date>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;My self-care things today: &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;1. drank lots of water&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;2. ate a good lunch&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;3. had hugs with my pets&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;4. had a nap&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;EM&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 13 Oct 2020 11:36:24 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>ecomama</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2020-10-13T11:36:24Z</dc:date>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;hot drink while sitting outside&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;took some time for myself when some very chatty neighbours wanted to talk to me (sorry, not today lol)&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;put on a snug jumper&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;(these are hard to write)&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;(i'm not good at this).&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;great to work on this &lt;span class="lia-unicode-emoji" title=":slightly_smiling_face:"&gt;🙂&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 13 Oct 2020 12:29:49 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>Guest_1643</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2020-10-13T12:29:49Z</dc:date>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;My self care today:&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;- had a shower&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;- finished cleaning the house and did all laundry&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;- listened to guided meditation &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;- did mindspot course for anxiety/depression&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 13 Oct 2020 12:49:28 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/staying-well/three-self-care-things-you-did-today/m-p/534325#M53133</guid>
      <dc:creator>Butterfly20</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2020-10-13T12:49:28Z</dc:date>
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      <description>mindfulness is great self-care - so impressive, Butterly2.0!</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 13 Oct 2020 13:13:00 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>Guest_1643</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2020-10-13T13:13:00Z</dc:date>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;Doing well team..&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Today&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;1. I wrote on BB&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;2. changed into PJs when I got home&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;3. ate lunch&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 14 Oct 2020 04:37:50 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>ecomama</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2020-10-14T04:37:50Z</dc:date>
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      <link>https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/staying-well/three-self-care-things-you-did-today/m-p/534328#M53136</link>
      <description>&lt;OL&gt;
    &lt;LI&gt;&lt;EM&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;I made the decision to start paying more attention to the kinds of activities I could be doing so that I feel more content and happy with my life,&lt;/STRONG&gt;&lt;/EM&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;
    &lt;LI&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;&lt;EM&gt;I also cleaned my kitchen &amp;amp;&lt;/EM&gt;&lt;EM&gt;&lt;/EM&gt;&lt;/STRONG&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;
    &lt;LI&gt;&lt;EM&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;I spent time reading.&lt;/STRONG&gt;&lt;/EM&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;
&lt;/OL&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 14 Oct 2020 14:31:10 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>asdfge</dc:creator>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;That's beautiful asdfge.... I like how you are spending time thinking about activities you like doing to increase your contentment. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;and WELCOME to the forums! wow I just noticed this is your first post! &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Very warm welcome... we have all sorts of threads in the well being section like cooking, gardening and home improvements... I hope to see you round! &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Love EM&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 14 Oct 2020 14:43:33 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>ecomama</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2020-10-14T14:43:33Z</dc:date>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;Today I&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;* had a long bath&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;* put a hair treatment in my hair&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;* wore jewellery (not sure if this counts lol but it kinda does for me)&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;* phoned a friend&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;EM&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 15 Oct 2020 02:09:31 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>ecomama</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2020-10-15T02:09:31Z</dc:date>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;Hi all, my 3 self-care activities were... &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;1) Having an extra sleep in &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;2) Eating a delicious pie for lunch &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;3) Painting my nails&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 15 Oct 2020 02:15:27 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>Bellss</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2020-10-15T02:15:27Z</dc:date>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;LOVE your self-care things &lt;STRONG&gt;Sleepy21&lt;/STRONG&gt;, &lt;STRONG&gt;Butterfly20&lt;/STRONG&gt; and another BIG warm welcome to the forums to &lt;STRONG&gt;Bellss&lt;/STRONG&gt;! &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Sleepy21 sent me some sparkles for my nails lol so I'll use them on Sunday when I repaint my nails! Thanks Sleepy21! &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Today I'll be doing home renos with my Uncle so my nails will cop it lol. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Who's Number 1? YOU ARE! &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Let's get busy with self-care peeps. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Love EM&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 15 Oct 2020 16:49:34 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>ecomama</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2020-10-15T16:49:34Z</dc:date>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;Hi everyone,&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;here is what I did:&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;1. Wished my papa/mama and my brother in the morning&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;2. Cooked dinner for papa/mama&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;3. Helped my mama in house chores&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2020 08:54:42 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>Jasjit</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2020-10-16T08:54:42Z</dc:date>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;BIG day helping others today &lt;STRONG&gt;Jasjit&lt;/STRONG&gt;! Aren't you a sweetheart, what a lucky family to have you! &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Did you do anything for your own self-care? &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;After looking after all those people, I hope you had some time for you. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;xxEM&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2020 09:15:58 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>ecomama</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2020-10-16T09:15:58Z</dc:date>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;Happy Saturday!&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Had a sleep in.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Went to the park with the kids.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Strolled through hammer barn (bunnings).&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Not_Batman&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Sat, 17 Oct 2020 02:50:37 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>Not_Batman</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2020-10-17T02:50:37Z</dc:date>
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