Only the strongest survive…make it YOU

white knight — Thu, 29 Sep 2016 05:00:23 GMT

That’s nature right? It has been so for every animal on the planet since life began. Why would humans be different? We, those with mental/emotional struggles are seen as the weak in the eyes of the domineering. Modern society has a long way to go for fairness for all.

So, if you feel vulnerable, an easy target in social situations, what can you do? Do you need to “toughen up princess” as was told to me so many times? What survival techniques can you implement to survive?

In my experience toughening up isn’t natural unless you include it in your natural maturing development. It’s like patience…where do you buy that?

So, allowing comments to become “water off a ducks back” isn’t natural for us. Swallowing hurt is really tough because it goes against our feelings, our personality.

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This is the sole reason I’ve retreated from society. No more committees (car clubs, volleyball, council sub committee’s etc). The less people you are in contact with the less chance of abuse right? It’s logical. But is it ideal to "live" in my shed??

For some of us retreating isn’t so easy. Some are talkers, we need vocal communication, we want to be liked, admired and successful. So the challenge is to get a balance.

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Your happy place is for you and you only to find. To dodge the rogues, to identify those people that could trigger much hurt, to remain cordial and calm with the best level of judgement. To no longer feel obligated when some throw expectations upon you…to learn to tactfully say “no thankyou but good luck with your committee’s future.” Don't allow others to use you like a puppet

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Find your “happy place”. Acknowledge to yourself you are not well. Find the insulation you need as a defence from those that think survival means to conquer. You are not in this world to live up to others expectations.

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You will not become stronger, its not in your nature even to mimic those that dominate. You’ll likely over react and been seen as the nasty one

Be stronger by building your defence. Let those with fork tongue throw stones at your brick walls as you nurture yourself away from their chants. And be happy

Tony WK

Only the strongest survive…make it YOU

Guest_3072 — Thu, 29 Sep 2016 12:37:23 GMT

Thanks for posting this, it's something I needed to read right now! ❤️

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Only the strongest survive…make it YOU

Only the strongest survive…make it YOU