topic Newbie in Suicidal thoughts and self-harm

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Lolababygirl — Sat, 28 Nov 2020 13:28:18 GMT

Hi I’m new here and I have not had a good year. I recently received bad news that has sent me over the edge.

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Sophie_M — Sat, 28 Nov 2020 13:46:50 GMT

Hey Lolababygirl,

Thank you for joining us. We're sorry to hear that you've received some bad news that has sent you over the edge - we're unsure what "over the edge" means for you exactly and we hope that you are okay. When (and if) you feel up to it, we encourage you to share your thoughts and feelings in a little bit more depth with our community so that we know how to best support you. If you are having bad thoughts and thinking of hurting yourself, then we urge you to contact Emergency services on 000 (triple zero). If you're feeling overwhelmed and in need of counselling we encourage you to call Lifeline (13 11 14) or Suicide Call Back Service (1300 659 467).

Please know that you've come to a safe, non-judgemental space to talk things through and our community is here to offer as much support, advice and conversation as you need. Please continue to reach out and update us as you see fit.

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Croix — Sat, 28 Nov 2020 14:06:44 GMT

Dear Lolababygirl~

Welcome. Posting in the middle of the night to a bunch of unknowns means you probably feel as desperate as I did when somebody I loved died and I would try anything to stop the hurt.

I'm probably on the wrong track with that is distressing you so much, but do know pain and despair.

I realy would like to make you fell at least not alone. I could mouth general platitudes but what good would that do?

So I can relate at least a little may I ask you talk some more, say what is the bad that is happening now, and probably the bad that has made your year not good?

This is in the suicide and self harm area, if you chose to be here then I can guess what being pushed over the edge means -you just want it all to stop. I have been there, not only when my wife died but another time too.

All I can offer is I found that talking with others kept some of the feelings at bay, and I did not feel quite so alone, also I went on to a better life, something I'd not thought possible at the time.

I hope you do talk some more, we will listen

Croix

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Miiia — Sat, 28 Nov 2020 14:29:18 GMT

Hello Lolababygirl,

I understand how you must be feeling as I have had a shitty 12 months. You didn't give too much away so it's hard to understand your situation. If you need to chat, there is help available. Life can be pretty cruel, hard or however you want to call it.

Don't want to go into my crappy past year. But I am sending you love and hugs, People on this forum really care about each other.

Miia xxxx